Discussed it with my wife, as we should in times of disagreement.
It was about perception....being perceived as a Christian. When I asked , perceived by whom? Other Christians.
I knew who that Christian was, my father in law.
I explained to her how we both love the office (us), but it has some pretty big adult themes that would brush the prudish the wrong way. So would she not wear her office stuff cause of perception? Hell no.
Either way: we sorted it out as we should.
Communication is important, in any relationship.
Which is why I think I’m done waiting for bun to return. I will be sending back her a email today that I’m fine with picking things back up when she returns, however I will not wait indefinitely for her to return.
“Zere’ Are plenty ov fesh en da sea!” As a crab once told me on a Disney film. If she is my fish, she will be back. Not gonna hold myself back....itching to dom again.