I'm posting this mainly just to explain my own views and feelings on sexual relationships. I felt compelled to make this post after two separate incidents of becoming attached to people here, only for other circumstances to take them away.
In my exploration of BDSM, it's apparent that the lifestyle is pretty focused on loose, casual sex. Sure, there are long term, serious, monogamous relationships, but a large portion of BDSM practitioners seem to embrace a more casual approach. Which is fine, I'm not here to preach to anyone. But if you want to do anything with me, I'm going to have an emotional attachment to you.
If you submit to me, if we start trading sexual pictures, if we start sexting or having sex-focused role plays: any or all of these will quickly, cause me to become emotionally connected to you. I simply can not have a sexual relationship with someone without feeling something for my partner.
So, if anyone else approaches me with the intent to just have some quick casual fun... Please just look elsewhere. If you come to me to start anything sexual, be ready for something long term.
