I'm really starting to wonder what the point in having a collar or collaring someone on here is. I have experienced it, and I have seen it far too many times. Usually when someone has a collar on, that means they are taken... another words, OFF LIMITS!! Why would you look at someone profile, or see someone's name and see they are collared, then decide "oh, I need to reach out to that person and see if they are available!" Um... HELLO!! THERE IS A COLLAR!! They are OBVIOUSLY unavailable.. unless their profile states they are poly, don't assume they are. On the streets, you would be known as a home-wrecker.. or a whore. Please dont do that. Its tacky! If you want to be friends with someone... and they hold the opposite title as you, reach out to their person and make sure they are ok with it FIRST before just deciding to jump in a collared person's inbox.
I have had people in my inbox when I was collared, I have had collared people in my inbox as well. When that happens, I reach out to that subs Dom/me to inform them of their subs shenanigans out of respect for a fellow Dom/me. The last I checked, we are ALL suppose to be adults here. Time to have respect like one. You wouldnt go to your neighbors house and try to sleep with their partner (usually), so why try to take someone elses person here.
Dont get me wrong, obviously, in most cases, unless a person has a way to get inside your head without realizing, or your person is the vulnerable type, then there shouldnt be anything to worry about from the start.. but that's not the point... have RESPECT for another collared person. ITS NOT THAT HARD!!
Ok, my rant foe the day is over... I think.. hope everyone enjoys their day!
