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PrimalSelf​(dom male) - It’s tricky to answer - because I don’t know what it is you’d like. My instinct is to tell you that a Dom can be there for you and that a good Dom will show patience and understanding and interest in teaching you about the structure of D/s. But I think before all of this happens, it might be best to do some research on both a submissive and Dominant, to take your time to find out what you really like and want.

Lion​(dom male){Hazel Eyes} - This is something that you will have to talk with your dom about. Your needs, wants, expectations of the kind of relationship you want. My lioness and I had many long conversations about what we were looking for and what we expected from each other. My advice take your time ask questions, ask more questions and decide if its what you want. Good luck if you have questions feel free to ask.

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - The best way to tell a Dom from a fom is by asking questions. Has he had other subs, who ended the dynamic, why did the dynamic end, can you talk to past subs. See what he answers and trust your instinct. Now if he hasn't had past subs that doesn't make him a fom, but be cautious. As for are you asking too much, I've had same question before. The answer is that the right Dom will meet most if not all your needs. I read something on a different blog. There is no such thing as the perfect anything. As much as I try to be everything my Sir needs, I'm not perfect. And while I know he'd love to hear he's perfect, he also knows he's not. Does that mean he doesn't meet my needs or I his? No. It just means that we talk cons

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - Constantly about our needs and adjust so that we can fulfill them as best as possible

Literate Lycan​(dom male) - Concur with all the posts above. The Dom and the sub form together. The right Dom for you might not be the best fit for someone else. What are you asking and what is being asked of you? Great points above about having conversations. Lots and lots of conversations before you jump into the dynamic. And then allow the dynamic to unfold and mature as you do with whoever you select as your Dom. Good luck!

Justme26 - Reading your blogs over the last few days I am worried that you might be going into sub panic (I know its not sub panic, can anyone help me here?) You sound to me like you're too panicky to make any good decisions. Take a few deep breaths, take a yoga or meditation class. Forget about relationships for a while. Being alone is not the same as being lonely, and being lonely is not nearly as bad as you think it is going to be. Thats my advice anyway.

Litlegrl​(sub female){Dragon11} - Sub drop what you mean?

ulfhednar - Pretty much everyone here has said it communication