Other than having the biological anatomy, a Man, to me is strong, a protector, defender, he provides, he cares for (not just physically but also mentally and emotionally), he is respectful, a gentlemen, a Dominant...you get the idea.
I do have expectations in what I want and look for in a man. Being a strong independent alpha woman, I take charge in all areas of my life and have had to in relationships as well. Because of it, Some have tried to control me, let me be, or just wanted to submit. I need a man who is going to be my equal and balance me, who will respect me as the strong woman I am who can embrace that side of me and in turn earn my submission so I then can submit myself to him knowing that I can trust him to take charge and be safe in his care. I need a man who is a Dom in all areas of his own life, a gentleman always and can also be my friend and partner in life.
How he behaves and acts as a person gives me a clear indication of how he is as a Dom and how he will treat and care for me as his sub and partner outside of the D/s relationship. Overtime, people will show you who they really are especially in desperate times.
I am and will not settle. Respect my boundaries and limits. And for Pete’s sake, if you claim to have a pair, use them and be a man and tell me we are not the right fit and not just jump to the next person just because I won’t put out.
I am not here to play, be someone’s conquest, or for cheap thrills no matter how good it can be. I respect myself and who I am and will NOT send you nudes or pics of me in sexy lingerie or of my ass. If that’s what you are looking for interested in, go surf the web.
WARNING!!!!!!!
If you are going to message me, READ my profile and blogs so you get a better understanding of who I am. If you are that interested in me, do your due diligence in getting to know me, if you claim to want what I want. If you’re in for the long-term, be ready to earn my submission, I do not give it easily. I will equally put in the effort.
And, no I am NOT a Bitch, I am done taking shit is all.