Aside for the obvious need of discretion for some, what I do not understand is if you are in a committed exclusive dynamic - why are you hiding and deny being in relationship, while your partner is in the dark thinking you are not engaging in misleading conversation with others? That is lying. That person does not deserve to be treated that way, nor the one (s) you are talking to. That makes you just as bad as the fake doms using the person and the others you converse with. What are you stroking your ego or need validation? Do not think that for one minute that because you know how to dom, it makes you a dom. I do not know whether to have pitty or be outraged. However, no one deserves to be lied on either end.
I have seen Doms and subs on here who publicly display their collar to show their commitment. I understand that there are instances as to when it would be best not to due to individuals past relationship on here that have not turned out well and circumstances where a dynamic may have its reasons for not putting their names beside each other, however, some of the reasons I wonder how truly valid are they. A blog was posted about Inquiring minds wanting to know if collars were put beside profile names, how many would be the same. *Raises hand*
YOU - hiding behind your screen and keyboard messaging other subs while you have one - your dishonesty and lies will catch up to you. Karma is a bitch and will slap you hard. Even a good con-artist and liar slips up and gets caught. Word will get to her eventually...stop hiding.
