Navigating this world I am finding more and more that those who say they have integrity, are committed, believe in honest communication and look to build trust are so full of shit. Coming across people who say they are not involved but do have a partner (in the lifestyle) and are having conversations outside the dynamic that are inappropriate, is not right! It’s one thing to have a conversation about the lifestyle and have discussions, but to explicitly be telling someone how you would be their Dom and what you would expect of them as your submissive while telling them you are not involved - Hello…it IS fucking cheating.
Where is the honesty and integrity then? If you lie about one thing, there are more lies to follow. How could you be trusted? You are confronted with the facts and have no shame because you continue to do what you do by waiting for the next sub to land in your inbox. Shame on you! That is not integrity or the actions of a true real Dom. Your approach is slick and smooth. It won’t be long before it blows up in your face. Do you ever think of what you are doing to your partner?
I am beginning to wonder if all of this is a sham and a way for someone to manipulate and get into someone’s pants. Is any of this worth the time and heartache? Bad enough having to deal with this in the vanilla world.
I read blogs that are inspiring on here, in turn giving me hope until that dream is blown out of the waters by liars, especially cheaters. It’s a sore spot for me.
My apologies for this post but I am getting fed up.
Rant over…
