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Kinky interactions for the D/s inclined

A list of my meanderings into the world of kink
6 months ago. June 25, 2024 at 5:08β€―AM

Both men and women write about the male predator dom. Men who demand pictures and submission on first contact. Men who prey on the newbies. Men who will say anything to get what they want.

I know these awful people are out there, but I’ve come across only a very few. The men I know, the majority of the men in my friend’s list, are good guys. They haven’t asked for pictures, they haven’t ordered me around; they listen, they share, they laugh.

But Bitches Be Crazy!

The women here can be equally as dangerous, but no one really talks about that.

**Velcro Collar Bitch:** She changes her relationship status at least twice a month. She is always “owned” by someone. In fact, she usually has 15 listed in her profile. Baby girl, sub, slave, kajira, bottom, under consideration, being mentored, institutional escapee, afraid to be left alone for five minutes, etc.

The guy who falls for her will be skewered on a rotisserie before he can change his status back to normal. He will be labeled a fake and a user. She gave him ***everything***.

**Little Miss Innocent Bitch:** She talks to D-types and plays on their inherent need to protect. She thinks that if she comes across as vulnerable, every man she meets will try to be her knight in shining armor. Meanwhile, she is emailing the next guy about how she “worries” about the guy she tried to manipulate the day before.

The guy who falls for her is in big trouble. Once he tells her that he isn’t interested in a D/s relationship with her, she will release the ugliest, most vile accusations upon him. She will threaten to destroy him for using her and leading her on.

**Stalker Bitch:** She is stealthy. Once she catches sight of a domly one she likes, she reads everything he has written, makes comments, then sees where he has been, making sure to comment immediately after him and reference him in her comment. She will go through everyone on his friends list, all of their pictures and writings; trying to see if he is doing anything with someone else. And the minute she has decided to piss on him (figuratively, not literally), she makes sure to piss a perimeter around him to make all other females back off.

The guy who falls for her will not be rid of her easily. She will email everyone he has contact with to warn them about his status as a player and user. She can’t believe anyone is more desirable than she is and won’t accept defeat.

**Mean Girl Bitch:** She tends to travel in a swarm, like sharks. They circle around one D-type and snipe at anyone who says something against their proscribed thought. They lurk in groups and pat each other on the back about how smart they are. "You're so right." "No, you're so right."

The guy who falls for one of these is warned that when they are involved with one, they are fodder for the swarm. They will be emailing each other about every detail of their version of events and it will always be your fault if things don't go the way they want.

**Me (Bitch):** I’m the one who gets very protective and angry where my friends are concerned. Three of my friends have decided it was necessary to deactivate their profiles because of crazy bitches like these.

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Just like most men aren’t slimy, underhanded predators; most women aren’t crazy bitches. But they are out there. Proceed at your own risk.


*Disclaimer: These are my opinions, blah, blah, blah*

flitter'fly​(sub female){His} - i fucking lovvvve you...😏 πŸ€£πŸ˜‚πŸ€£
This is great.
Roflmao
Thank You πŸ€­πŸ€—πŸ₯°
6 months ago
SubSided​(sub female)Verified Account - Awwwwwww. Thank you.
6 months ago
flitter'fly​(sub female){His} - Lol
Fucking Hilarious πŸ˜‚
6 months ago
MypetsLord​(dom male) - Love, love, love, love, LOVE THIS POST !!
ABSO-FUCKING-LUTLY THE THUTH.
Preach it sister!!
Oh the stories I could tell...
But because I am an emotionally mature individual, who does not need to put somebody down, or make them look bad, or play the victim, or anything else to get attention in order to make myself feel better about who I am... I choose to keep them to myself.
Unless maybe I see the same individual going down the same path again with another Dominant that I respect, Then I might reach out and give him a bit of a warning.
But still in private and without too much detail. It is still up to him to make his own conclusion as his experience may be different than mine was. His opinion of exactly what the definition of CRAZY is may differ from Mine.
Therefore his end result may be different than mine, and maybe these two are a perfect match. The last thing I want to do is interfere with somebody else's potential dynamic.
Because when I began in this lifestyle I was taught a simple rule, mind your own business and keep your opinion of other peoples Dynamics to yourself. What they choose to do is up to them and them alone. Your opinion of what they are doing is not desired, nor needed, nor appreciated. What you may call abuse, they may call ecstasy. Something you would never do or allow to happen in your relationship, may be exactly what they have chosen to do because it gives them pleasure.
6 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - I could agree more
6 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Couldn't
Damn auto correct
6 months ago
I'mME - WOW, some of this I had picked up on. Now I know the rest of the story.
Lmao.
❀️

6 months ago
SubSided​(sub female)Verified Account - I only know because I've been one or two of these in a past life
6 months ago
I'mME - I figured, we either win or learn.
I like it.
6 months ago
intenseoldman​(dom male) - Sad, I just noticed someone I followed and exchanged comments with deactivated. I don't know what happened.
As far as your Crazy Bitches go... uh huh... yep... they're out there.
6 months ago
Loving Dominant Two - Sad, but true. Unfortunately this happens on both side too many times.
Why can't people just take the high road.
6 months ago
Sir Don​(dom male){Nt looking} - Just saying , this is so fucking awesome
Thank you for the informative information.
Never knew how to put it into words, now I don't have to.
6 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male)Verified Account - True. True. True.
And from a sub's perspective even more precious.
6 months ago
SubSided​(sub female)Verified Account - Yes, I think coming from the other side of the slash would not be taken so lightly.
6 months ago
Voldemort​(dom male)Verified Account - Great job.
6 months ago
MypetsLord​(dom male) - Exactly, and that is the reason I never tried to approach this topic, even though I have wanted to many, many times.
Because all of those "crazy bitches" listed above would have been after Me. Visualizing torches & pitchforks, ala an old Frankenstein movie. LoL
Also the reason your post is so appreciated.
Thank you for bringing awareness to the truth nobody wants to acknowledge.
5 months ago
ErosRising​(dom male){Hekate}Verified Account - Well didn’t you just hit the nail on the head. LOL. I have had a few different ones in my inbox which has made me take pause and a break from the site for periods of time.
I know female subs especially get bombarded, but it does happen to us Male Doms also. I have learned to blow them off for the most part but, every once in a while, I get that new message from one of them. πŸ™„

Great post!!
~Erosβ€οΈπŸ–€β€οΈπŸ–€
6 months ago
SubSided​(sub female)Verified Account - Thank you. I did a lot of research.
6 months ago

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