Both men and women write about the male predator dom. Men who demand pictures and submission on first contact. Men who prey on the newbies. Men who will say anything to get what they want.
I know these awful people are out there, but I’ve come across only a very few. The men I know, the majority of the men in my friend’s list, are good guys. They haven’t asked for pictures, they haven’t ordered me around; they listen, they share, they laugh.
But Bitches Be Crazy!
The women here can be equally as dangerous, but no one really talks about that.
**Velcro Collar Bitch:** She changes her relationship status at least twice a month. She is always “owned” by someone. In fact, she usually has 15 listed in her profile. Baby girl, sub, slave, kajira, bottom, under consideration, being mentored, institutional escapee, afraid to be left alone for five minutes, etc.
The guy who falls for her will be skewered on a rotisserie before he can change his status back to normal. He will be labeled a fake and a user. She gave him ***everything***.
**Little Miss Innocent Bitch:** She talks to D-types and plays on their inherent need to protect. She thinks that if she comes across as vulnerable, every man she meets will try to be her knight in shining armor. Meanwhile, she is emailing the next guy about how she “worries” about the guy she tried to manipulate the day before.
The guy who falls for her is in big trouble. Once he tells her that he isn’t interested in a D/s relationship with her, she will release the ugliest, most vile accusations upon him. She will threaten to destroy him for using her and leading her on.
**Stalker Bitch:** She is stealthy. Once she catches sight of a domly one she likes, she reads everything he has written, makes comments, then sees where he has been, making sure to comment immediately after him and reference him in her comment. She will go through everyone on his friends list, all of their pictures and writings; trying to see if he is doing anything with someone else. And the minute she has decided to piss on him (figuratively, not literally), she makes sure to piss a perimeter around him to make all other females back off.
The guy who falls for her will not be rid of her easily. She will email everyone he has contact with to warn them about his status as a player and user. She can’t believe anyone is more desirable than she is and won’t accept defeat.
**Mean Girl Bitch:** She tends to travel in a swarm, like sharks. They circle around one D-type and snipe at anyone who says something against their proscribed thought. They lurk in groups and pat each other on the back about how smart they are. "You're so right." "No, you're so right."
The guy who falls for one of these is warned that when they are involved with one, they are fodder for the swarm. They will be emailing each other about every detail of their version of events and it will always be your fault if things don't go the way they want.
**Me (Bitch):** I’m the one who gets very protective and angry where my friends are concerned. Three of my friends have decided it was necessary to deactivate their profiles because of crazy bitches like these.
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Just like most men aren’t slimy, underhanded predators; most women aren’t crazy bitches. But they are out there. Proceed at your own risk.
*Disclaimer: These are my opinions, blah, blah, blah*