Now, some of you may be wondering PM what do all these things have in common? Well let me tell you.
So yesterday Sir and I were playing and had an intense scene. Afterward we had a small conversation. And Sir mentioned he was dropping and we needed to do after care and self care.
Did you know that you can get sub and Dom drop from interactions in the internet??? If you said no then join the club because I didn’t either!
I’ve read about the importance of aftercare and drops and all that other stuff but nothing mentions that’s something I needed to do with online scenes.
So here are some tips on self care and helping take care of Dom drop:
Self care:
1. eat a snack. I don’t know about anyone else but I’m always hungry after sex. This can go for real life situations as well as online if you are physically playing as well.
2. Drink lots of water. You want to stay hydrated. It’s important.
3. Set up an after sex/scene playlist of your favorite songs and listen to those. There is power in music.
4. Ask your Sir to send you a video of them saying something or call them and chat with them just to hear their voice. (This one helped me way lots)
5. Look at your favorite picture of them or a picture both of you together if you have one.
Tips to help with Dom Drop:
(Please note that I got a good majority of these tips for a very good close friend of mine and I don’t want to take credit that is totally hers and I had really no idea of how to help until she helped me out. Thank you girl you are a gem💋💋)
1. send them a picture of yourself. Your Sir loves you and they want to see your smile.
2. Write to them. A poem and letter a fun or good memory. Just something from the heart. They want to know and hear those words. And it’s needed especially after a scene that has darker kinks or was heavy on the discipline/degradation. They need to know that you don’t hate them or take those words to heart.
3. Send them their favorite song. The lyrics or the song in general or if you have one send them “your song” or a song that reminds you of them. Again music is powerful.
4. Make sure they are taking proper self care measures like eating and drinking.
5. CUDDLES!!! Lots and lots of cuddles.
Hope these tips help you guys out as they did me! As always if you have any other tips leave them in the comments. And remember stay safe. Have fun. And keep on kinking on!
-PM💋💋
