I must confess this ma be one of the hardest things ether of us will commit to the web. It is much easier to hide the emotional scars but when they are physical as well as emotional you are reminded every day mine from war hers from a sadistic rapist no pity please that is not what this is about. This is about limits prior to sir we both had limits regarding exposure sir changed all that he showed us the difference between victim and survivor was simple it is all how you look at it and even as important how your sir looks at it. You see before I would look at the damage and scars on my lower body as embarrassing that is just another word for victim and the same for Stacy in regards to what he did to her back and breasts. You see part of sir's training is exposure complete exposure he would make you strip and examine your body he would study it commit to memory every inch of you he would then kiss every scar you bore he would let his emotions flow he would show his anger his grief at the damage in our cases this took multiple sessions but by the end he convinced us that we are beautiful because of our scars not in spite of them. He showed us that the limits of what our lovers can and can not see are silly and only harmed us. I will never forget the first time we made love with Jane kissing all my scars removing my foot and both of them kissing the stump not as a sexual thing as an accepting and loving thing when they moved up my legs without paying any particular attention to the scars. The feeling of being loved for who I was not what I was a scared vet.
In my case it was easier for me to accept the physical because of Jane the scar from breast cancer was brutal a very half ass'ed doctor left a terrible scar but she wore it with pride it made mine look good even though i had more the doctor who worked on me was very good and left very small scars and did a good job at reconstructing what was removed. but still it was a mark of a woman to be able to feed her kids and that is not possible in one case. but when he did his magic with me well I can walk around topless with a smile. So as you can see many limits are brought on by your emotions and really have no bearing on you sir's so sub's listen to your sir wishes as well you may find that freeing yourself of some emotional limits will help grow more in touch with the person within yourself that you have been hiding from the world and who will help you more by letting them out.
