I am going to attempt to explain why our life seems to work and work for us alone. First and foremost is the fact that we ladies are bisexual and being that way, we have a strong bond between us as women so all a Dom can do is (as john puts it handle it) or not and yes it gets harder the more you add to the soup. And we are all very different people we range from slut trying to act normal to dyke trying to act normal. (Three ring circus does not even come close to describing what it can be like sometimes) and Sir must find a way through without hurting any of us. so don't envy him because I am sure there are times, he just wants to walk away but he does not he stays true to his bond to each of us.
Now' thanks to Jane we have learned a way to make it easier on him we ladies having the bigger harts work hard to work out the problems between us before they turn into deal breakers and only after trying hard, if we can't come to a resolution, we bring it to our sir for him to decide what course we take. As you know we four were friends with benefits before we met jane and sir James. Through his not so gentile (at times) training we became the family we are now. One rule work's best for us (it is not the Dom's role to stand between us his role is to stand above us.) With that said understand men and women speak and deal with problems differently. Women prefer to talk in a spiral men like to listen and solve simple sometimes one-word answers. Because of this we have found it best for we ladies to talk it out between ourselves first. Then if we can't solve it ourselves, we take it to sir.
As I hope you can see by now is both simple and hard for many women, hard because we women want him all to ourselves at times, even then we know he must be shared. This is where the simple comes in learn to love the others like Thay are yourself. And in this way when he is with them, he is still with you.
