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GoldenBabyTopaz

3 years ago. December 11, 2020 at 11:26 PM

my Master is such a contradiction!! From one email to the next.. in the span of a day!!, He'll tell me opposing things. i'm not allowed to contradict what He says or point out anything He has said in the past. He said before the past is in the past, don't bring it up again. But my Rules were written in the past, with His logic then, are my Rules still valid and active? i'm just looking for some advice on what i should do, i've asked Him before only to be told to do what i've been told to do. Augh!! i really am trying to be a good sub.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - I'm sorry but to me, it sounds like he is refusing to take accountability for his errors. Its not right or fair. If YOU have consequences for your actions, he should as well. Thats what adults do....they take ownership of their mistakes.
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Just because he is a guy, does NOT make him perfect. He makes mistakes too and you have every right to point out conflicts in "orders" and expectations. Its called "clarity".
3 years ago
GoldenBabyTopaz​(sub female){Unattached} - Thank you for answering. i appreciate the assistance. i have tried before doing exactly what you said, and got my ass reamed for it in another email. i pointed out one time His numerous spelling errors, and that when i copy and paste His email to then answer it, i will correct His mistakes. i was told to never bring that up again!
3 years ago
T slave​(sub female){Owned} - Confusing indeed. Hard to follow rules if they are constantly changing without notice or communication.
3 years ago
GoldenBabyTopaz​(sub female){Unattached} - Thank you for answering, i appreciate the assistance. All advice is welcome. What you said would be hard as we live in different countries. We have only been Master and slave online with no actual physical contact yet. Also, He is married and i am not allowed to call or directly text his cell.
3 years ago
GoldenBabyTopaz​(sub female){Unattached} - An email sent to me just now, so here's an update.. i think perhaps it has now ended between my Master and i. He sent an email saying i was to Never contradict Him and that i have Now Stepped Over The Line.
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - He isn't God.....

As for the spelling errors, that could have been ignored. Not everyone appreciates it being pointed out that they don't spell gooder than sumone else...(hehe), but the "don't contradict me" shit...nah. if he sends contradicting messages, then you have the right to ask, "which is it buddy, red, or blue?"
3 years ago
OraclePollon​(sub female){NotYours} - For the best honestly. He is hiding you from his wife, he is just looking for a piece of ass. Dont be that inanimate object in his life. You will find better and be better for it.
3 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - In my honest opinion. This are all red flags. RULES are ment to be followed yet the are wrote ( or spoke ) and agreed upon before entering . And as far as the married thing I agree he is HIDING YOU. And with that stated you need to know that I ( and I know alot here) will say that trust, communication, and honesty are there of the BASIC parts to ANY relationship. And I dont feel as thought this is going on from what you have said. I will choose not to speak on the online only thing.

But know this NO ONE should be hidden or lied to . Sweetheart u deserve to be treated with respect along with so much more. It doesn't matter if you ( or anyone) are a slave or not. A good Master, Owner, Daddy, ect will treat what is his with such and is / or should be willing to talk about rules and such.

In my opinion..
3 years ago
alawey​(sub female){(OWNED BY } - Also from reading your profile either "married men " was a soft limit or you broke one of your hard limits yourself
3 years ago
Balthezor​(dom male) - We put rules and are always open to you for a reason. It’s for trust, but it’s also part of who I am. You should be able to ask any questions get any clarification you need to help you be the best you can. Then get lifted up from there. We all make mistakes, the chocolate bars know, I’m awful to talk to in the morning and I’ve contradicted myself only to ask why are you doing that later in the day. However the times that happens, I do the doh 😣 & talk about it then set up some special treat or something cause me saying I’m sorry isn’t good enough for my own self being. We’re all different, but if you can’t ask things take a step back and possibly renegotiate things. 🎄☃️🎅🏻
3 years ago

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