A Dom's Tale ~ The journey there and back again

Every now and then, I come across a pic that BEGS to me made into a new pic for my profile .... here's the newest! I did the text, but the pic is amazing!

I always thought Chuck and I had something in common!!

(still image from Season 3, Episode 11 - untouched and unedited!)

OK,  If you are an "all serious, no humor political type - pass this video up! It is NOT posted supporting or denouncing ANYBODY - it is just FUNNY AS HELL!!

"To Tread Where Eagles Dare Not"

   Morning breaks on another day in my life, and yes, I am thankful for my health, and the wonderous blessings that have been my life's experience and path up to this day. And yet, this day is more empty than any I remember. For I have ventured into the lost caves of Xanadu, I have tasted the forbidden fruit, and found myself irresistibly drawn into the pursuit of The Holy Grail again. I have discovered parts of myself that I never knew existed. Like a fresh snow atop a thundering mountain range, parts of myself never before seen, never touched, only sensed, where no man has ever been, including me. 

     I have spent my life foolishly believing that I had tasted love's true power, the sense of belonging, the feelings of completeness and satisfaction, to only now learn that I had only seen but a glimpse of their true depths, and possessed merely a fraction of their totality, a mere sip from the chalice of life's blessings as it were. Were this mere fiction, a movie, a writing by some talented author, I could dismiss it and return to the man I was before. But this not the case,  I have now seen it, tasted it, experienced a mere fraction of of it's endless possibilities, and I know the mountains are there, if I have but the courage to venture....

     Because at the heart of the true Dynamic lies a power that defies comprehension.  It is a bond forged from the very powers that enable creation itself, that fuel life, love, and true happiness. It binds two into one, with  a trust so true, so complete, that there is no doubt. It is when two souls merge into one, where one has valleys, the other peaks, one weakness, the other strength. And the power the two create enshrouds them together in an envelope of impenetrable power. Where souls are bared, and secrets cannot linger. Where two people have revealed all there is to reveal, and are mutually accepted for who they truly are, where time has no meaning, age and beauty no relevance, both working to help the other overcome the pains and obstacles of the past allowing them to move forward in a future together, making stronger that which could not be stronger, with each healing moment.

     This journey is not for the feint of heart. If you wish to possess it, it will come at a cost. You will be taken to the very precipice of your goal, only to find some imperfection that will prohibit your entry to the next level together, of which there are many.  But it is at those junctures when you must decide ... can we continue our journey together, do WE stop and take the time to repair or create what we need to continue, stop and exist here imperfectly, or do we return the the beginning ...alone again.

     Beware the demons of the past, and the dark angels deep in your soul. they will counsel you to abandon this attempt,  fearful of the hurt and damage that can come with failure. Before you make that decision, get in touch with your heart, and express your fears or misgivings to the one who is on this journey with you, you may just find you will slay that demon or silence that dark angel by bringing them into the light, the light of your dynamic, and you will venture onto the next step together,

     And if you are not yet on the journey, those same Demons and dark Angels will be ever present, albeit hard to discern from truth and the whispers of your own heart,  telling you to dismiss one you may have seen a flicker of power in, yet dismissed because of age, race, or physical imperfections. At the core of each of us, these things do not really exist, they are physical representations of our existence, not reflections of our souls. One year of existence in the true dynamic may very well be worth more than a lifetime of living without it...

This is the path, this is the way... myself, I stand at the gate for now, waiting to begin the journey again ....

Read another blog a few lines down, and thought hey! We shoud all share our playroom rules!!

Somedays are diamonds ..... Today isn't one of them .... a musical journey

Have you seen the cars whizzing past?

I am not entirely certain what the hell is going on lately, but for reason or another, blog after blog is apparently being reported for violations here at the cage. Now, before a mob forms and the torches get lit, let me be perfectly clear!!!

I SUPPORT THE CAGE,  AND THEM MONITORING THE POSTS FOR VIOLATIONS!!

The policies are here for our protection, each and every one of us.!!!

That being said, if you are not PERFECTLY clear on what (if any) violation has actually transpired,  please do not go around just seeing how many you can get taken down because you personally do not agree with the author (because in alot of cases, they are reviewed by The Cage and reposted anyway.) Take the time to READ the rules, and understand them...  they are at the bottom of every page om this entire site! One of the things I DEARLY love about this site is the tolerance we have for each other,  the common respect of "my kink is not your kink, but I won't shame it! The way we maturely debate points and learn from each other in all aspects, not just BDSM. 

If you have an issue with something said, speak your mind or send a PM to the author if it has offended you somehow! I think you'll find most all members here want to be productive, contributing, supportive people, and are damn reasonable when reasonably approached. You see, every time a voice or opinion is silenced amoung us, you weaken us all.

Now .. that being said, I have a soapbox I'll let go cheap!  :)

No super list would be complete without the infamous S-U-P-E-R BRAT!  But unlike her cousins from planet kink-ton, SUPER Brat is just generally misunderstood... and with good reason, she seems to speak her own language, with her own meanings. Recently a team of scientists at the Kink-Torium Research center were able to decode the true meaning of some of her more simple statements. Contrary to popular belief, she is not being "bitchy" - she just has a different way of telling you her needs, and forget submissions being "offered" ... this ain't trick or treat cowboy! Ya can't EARN IT if ya don't LEARN IT!

So what makes a so called normal Dom engage with this creature? What tasks him to undertake it? She is definitely not for the weak minded, she will test your very core until you LEARN AND UNDERSTAND her!! So I hope this helps you if you wind up in a dynamic with one of her sisters!

I am so sorry! I Didn't mean to sound bratty Sir!
(No way that was good Sas, my ass isn't red yet...damnit!)

What does it mean by "Alpha" sub Sir?
(just wait till I get ahold of that thing, I'll show YOU control)

Whats that? I broke another rule! I am sooo sorry sir!
(do I have to drop trou and spank myself b4 u get the hint?)

No sir, this is as submissive as I can be!
(if thats all you can make me give in! Where's my stuffy?)

Yes sir, I'll certainly submit to you if you do THAT!
(but only after I play your hot buttons like whack-a-mole)

No sir! I would never tease you on purpose!
(yup.. just like the rodeo, let's see if you can hang on for 8 seconds)

We gotta be fair! If theres a SUPER DOM! There has to be a SUPER SUB!

A strange being from another planet!
(cause she sure as hell ain't like any I met on this one!)

I have no needs you don't give me!
(well, except ... got any $$?)

I am DROP DEAD gorgeous!
(Really? There's a actress that's using my pictures? I'll SUE!)

We met 5 minutes ago, but I want come visit you right now!
(as soon as I get my car fixed ... sigh)

I want to talk to you all night long!
(except my phone is getting shut off ... sigh)

I need to start very slow, but you're hot!
(how about you buy some videos to start?)

My favorite color is GREEN!
(you know, grass, baby yoda, American Express)

Being strong like I am .. of course I am a domme!
(well .. Findomme to be exact .  whats you acct number again?)