Try as I may, I am far from perfect in this electronic world I find myself forced to participate in these days in search of the True Bdsm Dynamic. It is a difficult place to converse in, especially for an ENFJ such as myself. I have always had the benefit of using all of my senses when getting to know somebody, to read their body language, listen for changes in their voice, the touch of a hand, the true stories always told by the eyes. Is the laughter genuine or forced, and so many other things, but together, they always gave me a good picture, and I was able to temper my own output by reading how it was being received so as to never overpower the recipient.
So here I am now in this world, blind as a bat, doing my best to read between the lines, and never knowing how it is all being taken, Now, without tooting my own horn, let me tell you, I can be a bit overpowering of the ol senses, I can hit it pretty strong in the written word, and I'm willing to bet I've made more than one run for the hills by being so. But at the end of the day, that's who I am too, A monogamous hopeless romantic who counts on his instincts and intuition more than ever, feels strongly about matters of the heart and it's potentials, loves even stronger, and would put a Vulcan Mind meld on you in 20 seconds if he could so he would know you inside and out in an instant, then on with the dynamic! lol.
So in summary, the electronic world is a great place for information, but methinks it kinda sucks for getting to know people, especially those of us who rely on ALL of our senses when doing so. But, it's the world we live in, so all that is left is to adapt and do our best to cope with it all.
~another ID rambling~
