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Four decades of exploring the Dom/sub lifestyle and proudly still have a thirst for learning.
My first attempt at writing a blog.
3 years ago. February 26, 2021 at 4:54 AM

Four decades of exploring the Dom/sub lifestyle and proudly still have a thirst for learning.
My first attempt at writing a blog.

 

As a Daddy Dom, I enjoy the mental aspects of submission as much as the physical or maybe I'm too old to appreciate the physical as much as I did!

I enjoy getting to know needs, hopes, desires and sharing of Myself too. I need to guide as much as a submissive needs to serve.

I have built up a fairly impressive array of implements which I enjoyed sharing with select girls.

Now the problem: I'm recovering from a rather nasty bout of pneumonia which damned near killed Me. Luckily New Zealand is still free of the Covid curse otherwise I'd be gone long ago. I'm forced to convalesce for the next many months.

My mind still functions so why not try online D/s?

Unfortunately finding a submissive who has similar needs is becoming a mission. I took the liberty to mail invitations to a select few on The Cage and feel guilty for doing so. Unsolicited approaches are usually the handiwork of wannabes and posers. But how else to appeal to the submissive who shares a similar need?

I'm open to approaches from any female submissive who wishes to explore the online realm.

 

 

TaskMasterNZ​(dom male) - It wasn't My intention to malign anyone making a respectful approach. I would normally wait for an approach, but thought I'd try and jump start communication on this occasion.
3 years ago
dollMaker​(dom male) - You need to take part on the site more, blog, ask and answer questions on the various forums, and enter and take part in the chat room. When people can see your activity, it gives them a better idea of who you are, what makes you tick and for someone that will spark curiosity. I will say it takes time, patience and developing friendships first and then a play relationship might happen. Of course something might happen quicker. Good luck.
3 years ago
TaskMasterNZ​(dom male) - Very true. I'll step up My involvement. Thanks for your feedback.
3 years ago
slaveMikayla​(sub female){MstrJ } - dM is absolutely correct. People need to see a pattern of behavior and a public persona. Sure, you could "talk good game" and be 100% duplicitous, but it is harder to keep up consistently over time.
Besides, the more you engage the more you will get to see and know the submissives on site. It will help you narrow your own search for who resonates, as much as draw those who would resonate with you.

Glad you are doing better. Please stay safe and well.
~Faith
3 years ago
littleminxyy​(sub female) - Loved this very much until I read the "online realm" part lol
3 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - ⬆️⬆️⬆️DM stole what I was going to say! *I'll get you my pretty!!! Bwaaaa*

Welcome to blog-land. As friend DM said, participate. Blogs, forum, chat. It's the easiest way to get a feel for people and for people to get a feel for you.

I'm sorry to hear about your bout with the 'ick' and please care for yourself because your body is someone else's property just as theirs is yours. Care for it as they would want it cared for.
3 years ago

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