Indigolover{Beast}

Indigo Blue

This blog is about being true to who we are in the lifestyle we have chosen to live. I will encourage, entertain, and delight you all with poems, erotic stories, and personal experiences with me and My Dom Latinobrusier(Beast). Thank you all that follow me. You are my Indigo Fam.

Is there such a thing as TMI

4 years ago. August 14, 2020 at 2:52 PM

So i have been going through some complications after my Thyroid removal in the beginning of July. Currently back in the hospital after a second surgical procedure last night. Needless to say i have had time on my hands. I am a weirdo, even in the hospital I think about sex lol. With that being said, today I would like to discuss anal sex.

I never liked anal sex because the first time I encountered it, my partner shoved it in my ass. No lube no notice just did it. I felt pain like I had never felt before. I prayed for him to finish and what seemed like forever finally ended .....i cried i felt raped. The sad part was it was my husband. I felt helpless. After my marriage ended I had a couple of guys want to try anal, but I just couldn't bring myself to do it. The flash back kept me from going forward. When I meet my Dom I told him what happened and my fears. He asked me to give him the chance to show me that it can be a pleasurable experience, but only when the time is right. Well the time came. He made sure I was very relaxed and comfortable 😌. It was amazing 👏 😉. I even asked him to do it again. I share this to say you should always keep an open mind about things. Carrying baggage from another situation can keep you from having a good experience with your new partner. I wanted to especially post this to help Submissives that have had bad experiences, I have meet a couple recently. The right person can make a positive impact on your life. Just give them a chance. As my Dom says "It should be pleasure for us both, not just me because I am you Master" I adore My Dom, My Master, and My King.

Peace

Indigo

IceGirl(switch female) - Very interesting to see the idea from a true submissive. Yeah the fact i am sub curious i read things like this and realize id bite someones throat out before i let them have anal sex with me. I am glad you found your happiness! I hope to one day find mine.

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - White Knight, I actually told i wouldn’t do it until she asked me too

4 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Why there though?

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - Are you asking me why anal?

4 years ago

Indigolover{Beast} - Yes you did tell me that Sir....and you were right. This is because I trust you.

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - You’re asking me “why anal” Ice girl?

4 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Yeah i don't see the appeal. I mean a woman can contract her vagina making it just as tight if not tighter with practice so it cant be the feeling alone. I guess its about the taboo / power of it?

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - Why not? I mean it can feel good for both parties so why not? I don’t think it has anything to do with being taboo cause I don’t think it’s really all that taboo anymore and I personally don’t think there is any more power in it then regular sex. I would never agree to it with just anyone it would have to be the right person, but if you’ve ever used a plug if you’re immensely turned on it can feel great. BUT like everything to each their own 🤷🏽‍♀️

4 years ago

Indigolover{Beast} - I must say I am loving the dialog. Honesty is the best policy. We must be able to feel free to talk about anything without being judged.

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - Absolutely 💯 thumper

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - I’ve been told by a few that they actually orgasm harder from anal. It’s about your thought process on something that can make it enjoyable. And I would say more of a taboo thing then power. I don’t “take” it from her, we enjoy it together

4 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Well i guess some women i know guys have a prostate but for women there really is no specific nerves or organs there that get stimulated but maybe if your mixing it up with clit play or something i guess it could add pressure or something.

Not calling you selfish everyone has there own kinks i just don't understand that one.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - That’s not true there is actually an incredible amount of nerve innervation to the anus which is why If not done properly it is extremely painful. It is also incredibly close to the vaginal wall so it applies pressure to that area which is already engorged and sensitive

4 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Um random person i already passed medical school level anatomy 1and 2 and have done extensive studying of nerves for my neuroanatomy course and my psychopharmacology believe me no reason for me to lie to you there are more pleasure nerves in and around the vagina vulva region then the ass.

This is on purpose of evolutionary biology because women who enjoyed more traditional pentrative sex would have more children. Literally we are talking there is more then 3 times the nerves.

So does anal have no nerves of course not but more or better nerves that isnt correct either.

Now one thing is true though the brain can make anything arousing hello look at where we are so the amount of stimulation must somehow be improved by the mind body connection.

Still think its unusual personally.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - Seeing as you don’t actually know what my profession or background is I find it a bit condescending to assume I don’t know what I am talking about...

But I never said there were more or better nerve endings just that there are quite a lot of nerve endings, but also we aren’t cavemen and we no longer solely have sex for the sake of procreation and the anus IS considered an erogenous zone because of the nerve endings there. And yes your brain plays a huge part of it.

If you don’t want to or don’t like it that’s fine no one is forcing you to.

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - It’s definitely not for everyone. And if she didn’t enjoy it, it wouldn’t happen again. She’s my thumper and I will always care for her needs and safety

4 years ago

Indigolover{Beast} - Hey let's all keep it nice and friendly 😊. Everyone is untitled to express their opinions. It's not for everyone...
Hell nipple clamps, hot wax, fire play, and rope play are taboo to some. Anal is NOT for everyone. Like i said i trust Latinobrusier with my life. I know right now if I said i never wanted to do it again he would never make me. I used ansl as a catalyst to open the dialog that if you trust your partner/Dom things that may not have worked for you in the past could work now because this is a different person than the person in the past that didn't do it correctly or take feeling into consideration.

4 years ago

LaVieEnRose(sub female){Kintsugi} - I agree, it wasn’t my intentions to do more then to try and explain the answers to the questions being presented. I assumed they were being asked in a manner to understand why those of us who engage in it enjoy it but hey ho 🤷🏽‍♀️

I’m glad you were able to discover how pleasurable it can be under the guidance of your Dom! I love hearing stories of how a caring Dom can help a sub truly open up to new experiences

4 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - My point was you said it is so pleasurable my explanation is based on facts that it is less stimulating thus there has to be other reasons for it.

4 years ago

IceGirl(switch female) - Hot wax and fire what about ice cubes if your gonna do sensory play it is really nice to go from one extreme to another.

4 years ago

latinobruiser(dom male) - VERY well said thumper

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