Hello Indigo Fam,
I am about to bare my soul. To let you all in to a deep and personal situation that happened over the last couple of weeks. Warning ⚠️ this will be long, but worth it if you endure till the end.
For those that follow my blog you will recall the mention of the two Doms. My main Dom and the British one. Well things didn't go so well with that situation and we ended on a very sour note. What you guys don't know was the in between. There was another Dom that contacted me and wanted to talk. We will refer to him as K. He sparked my interest because he too wanted to be a back Dom to my main. So this sub was like a kid in a candy shop. We all know what happens when you have too many sweets, You get sick. I will continue...we took our conversation over to another site so we could send pictures. He was so handsome 😍 and very sweet. I though to myself this can't be real, but I continued on with getting to know K. He had a text conversation just like the British Dom with my main Dom. He agreed to his terms....in the beginning. After a few days he would say things to try and sway me away from the main Dom. The I love you and I want you to be mine stuff. K was insistent he even called me from the other site. His voice had a thick island accent. It did not match the images that was sent to me. I continued because I wanted to see where this was going. I was thinking catfish. Still talking to the British Dom, but starting to have issues at this point K was working it hard. The dick pictures started coming out and all. Being that K was an active military man he told me he had to ship out for Iraq the day after Thanksgiving. One "overseas" he contacted me and asked for all my personal information so I could be listed as next of kin. That was it, the catfish was caught. I reported him here and his account deleted. I blocked him on the other site. This was all within a 24 hour period. I had it out with him, the British Dom and I had a situation come up in my vanilla world as well. Thanksgiving morning I tried to take my own life. If it were not for my main Dom that recognized something was off and called my mother i would not be here today. I love my Dom and would NEVER trade him for the world. He was so understanding of my situation. Make no mistake to any Dom that reads this, a couple of days later after things calmed down he tanned my ass for scaring him. I bared my soul on this personal matter to highlight the predators that lurk on these sites. Please my sub sisters and brothers be careful when entertaining a prospective Dom. Ask the questions do your due diligence. Three questions I always ask
1) How long have you been a Dom
2) How many subs have you had (on and off line)
3) what severed those relationships
Alot can be determined from those three questions. Above all if they ask you for money or insist to meet them somewhere you are not familiar with say NO. Your comments are welcome I just ask if you are going to be mean don't say anything at all. It took alot for me to share this. My psychological well being can't take being ripped apart by anyone.
