You make plans and fail, my plan to write more has taken a back seat in life. But then again I think a scripted life can lead to disappointment, spontaneous behaviour can lead to excitement - the unpredictability gives it the spark, this can be from the D/s point of view.
I have had many years of disappointment, sickness, death and loss lead the way, my long term partner of 30 plus years died - and although I was repressed during that time I invested in the relationship and gave my full emotions to it, in retrospect people watched from the outside and I did not listen to them. They saw what I was too blinkered to see.
For over 12 months I have been living and enjoying life living with my submissive and partner, I am not perfect and challenge all Dom's to acknowledge that they are not perfect, despite what is written on their profile. As a Dom I also feel that sometimes I am not good enough for my submissive - but that is my own psyche my feelings of fallibility, perhaps brought on by previous relationships.
So out there somewhere is some one for you, it takes time and patience with a healthy dose of honesty. There will always those who look for a quick fix but there are also those who are looking for that long term relationship. To invest in that takes time a long time with a foundation of honesty leading the way. Remember even when you have found the special one you will always continue to grow, develop and learn.
Some thoughts:
- No matter how good a Dom you are you will a least once lead a whinging demon submissive from a public place.
- When your submissive ruins your day then act like they did not ruin your day, then ask why you're in a bad mood.
- A littlie: A face of a baby, the attitude of a teen girl and the ability to go from an angel to screaming banshee in 2.7 seconds.
- Silence is golden but with a submissive it can be suspicious.
