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The Isolation Diaries

Just some thoughts and musings whilst remote working in self isolation...
4 years ago. July 6, 2020 at 10:12 AM

How do cagearinos,

 

As promised part deux of Saturday’s post.

Also from this point I will no longer be calling them robo-dommes, but deceptidommes.  It just sounds cooler  and appeals to the transformers man in me.

 

Anyways, onto business.

 

So last time we worked out how to identify the deceptidommes by the caveman like grasp of grammar and thier insatiable hunger for amazon vouchers or money, what do you do now.

 

Thankfully on here (the cage) there is a team of responsible mods and admins who you can report them to, many sites do.

This is the reason quite a lot of the time they will try and get you to an unmoderated place, google hangouts for example where they can suck you dry of all your monies leaving you a poor embarrassed husk of your former self.

 

so the obvious thing is not to go to an unmoderated place unless you are 100% confident on who you are speaking to.  Stranger danger is a thing.

 

you should also remember to have a bit of self respect, it’s easy to forget...especially if you are pretty new...that regardless of your role you are still a person with your own thoughts and limits, if something dosn’t feel right just leave, you’ll feel better for it in the long run.

 

also, and I cannot stress this enough, DO NOT give them any money.  It may seem like a small amount they ask for but they will keep at you once they know you are able to pay.  It also encourages them to go after others, so long as it’s profitable they will keep doing it.

 

if you think one of your friends might be mixed up in something like this talk to them, the chances are they are too embarrassed to look for help, look out for each other.

 

remember online actions can have real life impacts.

 

failing all that kill it with fire*

anyways a bit more straight faced than usual but sometimes it’s needed.  And hopefully together we can defeat the evil deceptidommes.

 

*i do not condone killing anything with fire** as it is illegal in most countries.

** unless it is a witch***

***that was a joke, witches  are cool and should not be burned****

****unless they are like a bad witch like in wizard of oz, but I suppose you could just use water and melt them.*****

*****Do witches melt in water?******

******No they don’t, and stop putting in foot notes it’s a pain in the dick.

SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Rotfl!!!!!
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Yes, witches are killed with water. The Salem Witch Trials proved it.
4 years ago
badmonkey​(sub male) - Ohh aye forgot the famous with meltings of Salem
4 years ago
Annais - ((still giggling about witches )) Very insightful and helpful information.
**yes, some witches should be killed, Definitely! Water works on some not all.
**if not water, it could be extreme old age, like Melisandre in GOT (ok, that was more like "I can no longer abide in this world" suicide kinda death )and just grab at her necklace and
- poof-! (even though her character is technically a Priestess, I think I remember her hatefully being called a witch by someone.. tomato tomahto)
***The Blair witch. 100%=DEATH she should be subjected to die by watching extremely shaky self filmed "documentary style" movies over and over until raging mad or succumbing to tearing her own eyes out... Like we were as moviegoers... Ha
****sorry for the long footnotes!!
Thanks for the laugh, I needed it
4 years ago
SirsBabyDoll​(sub female){Pizza+☕} - Rotfl!!!!! Omg! The Shakey films!!!
4 years ago
SchrodingersDinosaur​(switch female){N/a} - Hey, some witches are pretty nice people! 😁

Seriously though, great warning post and to glom onto your point (and put a pretty big damper on some folks' fun...) there's another angle to be concerned about with scammers/ fins/ deceptidommes (genius, pure genius there badmonkey!). Granted can happen with any gender, either side of the slash, but sadly male subbies do seem to get disproportionately targeted with blackmailers. Be hella cautious about sharing pictures that are identifiable in any way with someone you don't know REALLY well. (And no, guys, you don't really know the 'girl' that appeared in your inbox two days ago, said you were perfect, slapped a collar on you and you've talked for hours and hours with and obviously is your soul mate perfect Domme... sorry to burst any bubbles there...) There's a pretty damn good chance that anything that can be used against you will be, and at least be threatened with.

Most good Dommes will take their time and want to get to know you, but there are folks that enjoy super casual borderline anonymous play. If you do so safely and it floats your boat, do so. If you want to share sexy pics make them unidentifiable (or at least not easily identified) and don't allow someone who hasn't earned your trust, Dominant or not, to bully you into anything. Subbies don't 'have to' do anything for rando's and yes, real submissives do have a voice. Play safe, ya'll.
4 years ago
badmonkey​(sub male) - that’s a really good insight, thank you.
4 years ago

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