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4 years ago. July 25, 2020 at 2:21 AM

How do you shut off empathy? I am having a difficult time shutting that part of my emotions off. MR says I need to start to ignore things I see online. I do try, because I want to do what he says. The biggest culprit is Facebook. I don't try to use it hardly anymore. But, sometimes I catch myself scrolling thru to see what everyone is doing. WRONG MOVE. I feel like most of the people I grew up with have gone nutty. My former best friend was sharing crazy conspiracy videos, and biased news articles. MR says the internet is in the dark ages.  

I just feel so much at times. I see such biased information being spewed out and it angers me. Because people I love believe it and take it as gospel. I have gotten into screaming fights with family members over such things. I do wonder if I shouldn't say anything to them. 

Then, I look at my two kids and see that this is a crucial time in their life. If I were to sit on the sidelines then I am just as bad as everyone else. I want them to see me as a mother who would stand up for beliefs. 

I just don't know how to harden my emotions. I want to be this strong, bad ass woman. 

Bunnie - Perhaps being a strong, badass woman is striving to stay soft in a world where everything is pushing us to be hard. Rather than shutting off our emotions, perhaps learn to view others from our heart rather than our head. Never easy... but no one ever said life was meant to be easy :)
*hugs*
4 years ago
darlingnikki​(sub female){Taken} - I am a huge softy. That is why I have such a rough time with it.
4 years ago
Bunnie - Comment deleted by poster.
4 years ago
IowaDom​(dom male) - IMHO there is nothing about being submissive (or dominant for that matter) that in any way takes away from personal convictions or beliefs. Your moral convictions and persona;l beliefs are at the core of who you are, and while they are just a couple parts of you, who you are, the type of person you have become, spring partly from those wells. Nourish and protect them, never let them die. And if you need to stand up for something, the choice becomes deny who you are or take the stand. Personally, I'll take the stand.
4 years ago
Cello Master​(dom male) - Where that line came from...

4 years ago
Jack in the box - As a fellow empath, I believe we are hardwired to see the world with our hearts. When I read something someone has written for example, I feel the emotions they had at the time of writing it. - I cant help it. Its emotions to me, not just words on a page. I had just said to someone "I often wish I could shut it off", but you really cant, can you? (This is often the reason I will dissappear for a few days).
I think what we have to do is learn to filter what matters and to what extent.
Also be conscious of what you are taking in.
Teach your kids to stand up for beliefs - yes. Do not teach them what their beliefs should be.

My 2 cents .. .

Thank you for sharing Ms Nikki ⚘
4 years ago

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