Liberated

xGiGix​(sub female) - I struggle with this same question as well. I usually found that revealing parts of myself through different conversations has been easier than just telling everything in one go. I have to get a feel for the person first before I reveal those parts of me because you also have to decide if that person is worth it. I also let them know that I have issues I’m dealing with as does anyone, and that they affect how I perceive the world and others. I’m assuming you have decided that this person is worth it if you’re referring to one particular. Just know that if you do put yourself out there, in such a vulnerable position, and that person chooses to leave, then they weren’t right for you anyway. I hope you’re able to find the right time for yourself, everyone is different.

xGabbyx​(sub female){Galy} - I think he is worth it, but you're right only time will tell. Thanks GG!

xGiGix​(sub female) - Of course, anytime 🤗

Max Heathen​(other male) - I put it out there up front. I'm an asshole, I have a temperamental beast within me, I have more kinks / fetishes than I have fingers and toes, I drink blood and live in a vampiric polyamores lifestyle... Then I explain what I do to curb my temper, tell my triggers, tell my tales that shows I'm becoming unstable, what they can do to redirect if not relieve the issue. I explain how I feed, why I feed, what requirements are made before accepting any donor... I've come to find that most people accept one's fuckupness if that person also knows themself well enough to share all the above information. Yes we are all a bit fucked up. Some deny, some lie, some hide... But if you want something that is going to last, tell them upfront. No sense getting heart invested just to watch them tremble, cringe and run away from the monster they knew nothing about. Just my opinion.. and opinions are like assholes 😏 Everybody has one, and most are full of shit. 🤣🤣🤣

Good post, Gabby

xGabbyx​(sub female){Galy} - I think that's brave and very wise. But there are some parts of you, some things that you've been through that can only be revealed in a safe setting. In my opinion. I don't deny or hide any of my experiences, but I am a very private person. Thanks for a different perspective!

Max Heathen​(other male) - No problem, Gabby. 😁