Liberated

Journey of my self-evolution

"Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate; our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. We ask ourselves, who am I to be brilliant gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be? "

I'm a self reflector, an observer. I take note of my actions and rectify if need be. I am definitely not an attention seeker. I stay in the background as much as I can. But I am excellent, I know that. Take that as cocky or just self-assured, but I am excellent. I work hard; I excel at what I do, and I have struggled with being comfortable with that.

A very self-centered problem to have, right? But who am I not to be excellent.

I have that question on my wall in bold letters, it opened my eyes.

"Who am I not to be?"

Who am I not to be (fill it in)?

Bold, daring, excellent, smart, crazy, etc...

Who are you not to be?

xxxalexxx(sub female) - I LOVE this because it not self-centered, its confidence! and people should feel comfortable to be confident and assured of themselves! love love love it

4 years ago

xGabbyx(sub female){Galy} - Thanks love! 🥰

4 years ago

xGiGix(sub female) - Yessss gabs!! I agree and I’ve felt the same way. We’re always told that it’s cocky and narcissistic to think of ourselves this way but if we work hard and strive to be our very best, why not??

4 years ago

xGabbyx(sub female){Galy} - Exactly GG!

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AphroditesKiss(dom female) - Gabby, I love your post. You are all those things and more. Be cocky if you have something to be cocky about.

I am narcissistic. The problem with that, is I don't have a problem at all with it. I told my therapist I am a narcissist. She didn't believe me, and said, "a narcissist, wouldn't be self aware enough to care or acknowledge that they are one". Which I had to point out, I didn't come to that conclusion on my own. My roommate has been point it out to me for years, and I really am not the one who as a problem with it, but my friends seem to. So she gave me the test, and sure enough, I am. I know at some level I should care, but I really don't. What I do care about is that my friends feel like I don't care about them at times due to how narcissistic I can be.

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xGabbyx(sub female){Galy} - I can see how that can affect relationships and I think there's a balance. But if you are fine with the "collateral damage" so to say, then who are you not to be?

4 years ago

Bunnie - Love this.

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mab{His} - This is a brilliant post. I'm gonna take my time to digest this.

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xGabbyx​(sub female){Galy}

Liberated

Who are we not to be?

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