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Master me, please, Oh Master me.

And wrap me in your thoughtful plan.

Draw me sweetly to my knees;

Accept me as I am.

Master me, please, Oh Master me.

As only my true Master can,

Own me, Know me, guide me, and stretch me,

Lead me into all I really am.

Master me, please, Oh Master me.

Support me and embrace me,

You know my needs, You know my desires,

To please you in Body and soul.

Master me, please, Oh Master me.

Satisfy my deepest yearnings,

Push me to my outer limits, and

Overwhelm me with the power of Your Love.

I will never understand, no matter how long I live, how cruel and deceptive some people choose to be. It doesn't matter what community is involved, people are people and some people just suck!

I'm saying all this just to say, people, Dom/me or subs, we must all be vigilant as we meet new people, because some people, intend harm!

I have been scammed by a man claiming to be a Dom. Little by little, his "story" began to implode, details contradicting previous things said. And then came the clincher, "If I could just get $35k, I could finish my project and we could start our life together."

Uh huh! Right! How sad for you...

Be smart, my friends, there are villains out there and some sneak in here. Listen to your gut or head, NOT your heart! ☺️

Clearly, just a quick look around this site and others like it, Dominance and submission mean different things to different folks! This is not a "one size fits all" proposition.

Some just use the D/s dynamic for games. Some, only in the bedroom. Some of us, however, fully submit to the Right Dominant, but not just anyone. And Dominants each have their own style and expectations. Explore! 

There is just as much involved in finding the right Dom/me or sub as there is in finding a mate in the "vanilla" world. Not just anyone will do. It takes a great deal of communication, honesty, and knowledge of yourself, it seems to me, to find the "fairytale," whether it's part time, bedroom only, or 24/7. One of the first questions most Doms have asked me, is "What are you looking for?" It's vital to figure out your personal answer because if you don't know what you're looking for, how will you know if you found Him/Her?

I thought it might be interesting to compare our different experiences. If you had to chose one thing about your favorite Dom/Master that speaks his Dominance and ignites your submissive fire, besides direct contact, what one thing would it be?

I'm sitting in a local church thinking about how people called Jesus, Master... ? Yet He also told people they were no longer his servants, but Friends. 

I remembered hearing the story of Creation, and one thing that stood out to me was that Adam and Eve were in the Garden of Eden, naked and unashamed.

That stuck with me through the years as it became an unspoken goal. I know very few women, especially, but I suppose men feel similarly (correct me, if I'm wrong, please) who are totally comfortable with their body. 

This is a gift my time in the BDSM community has helped to change. None of us are perfect, and even those darn close to perfect body, most assuredly lack in another area. 

It it part of the maturing process, it seems, to find your identity and explore it to make the most of every living day. 

The first time I scened nude in public was terrifying, but Master wore a proud smile as he showed off the progress he had made with me. Toward the end, he whispered how proud he was, and certainly his state of arousal confirmed the effectiveness of our power exchange as he took me openly. Such a freeing experience to share. Thank you, Master, for teaching me to be naked yet unashamed. 

I'm curious, how many real life D/s relationships start online?

I, for one, am a believer in the possibility of online D/s or M/s situations. It requires a lot of work, but all good relationships require work.

"The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out." Proverbs 20:5

This seems to capture the role of a Dom pretty well, don't you think? 

Years ago, I was found by an Australian Master. He had owned Slaves in his life, but as an older Man, had placed them with other Doms to continue their growth.

First, he befriended me and won my trust by confirming himself. Our first conversations were about the many stories I have written. He offered to help me put them together into an ebook to sell. A few days after this chat, I received a program disk to help create the ebook.

His genuine interest was to aide in my growth, so gave me hours and hours of his time daily - no pics or videos to confirm obedience, but he fostered trust and honesty. He created scenes for us to walk through, giving me various choices. He introduced me to the whole Dominance & submission idea, and solely with kindness and great wisdom. 

I still, years later, am blessed by exactly how much of his time he gave to me everyone single day, to encourage my submission, and foster my feminine growth. 

Now, I'm not saying this kind of relationship always works, but I can tell you, after 4+ years talking with him for hours, I felt my submission, and knew his control. It was a wonderful experience. He devoted his time to my growth, and I served him as honestly and fully as possible.

As his health declined, he sought and found a local Dom to take over my care. How awesome is that?

Anyway, he has now passed... God bless you Master S! 

I'm curious, how many real life D/s relationships start online?

I, for one, am a believer in the possibility of online D/s or M/s situations. It requires a lot of work, but all good relationships require work.

Years ago, I was found by an Australian Master. He had owned Slaves in his life, but as an older Man, had placed them with other Doms to continue their growth.

First, he befriended me and won my trust by confirming himself. Our first conversations were about the many stories I have written. He offered to help me put them together into an ebook to sell. A few days after this chat, I received a program disk to help create the ebook.

His genuine interest was to aide in my growth, so gave me hours and hours of his time daily - no pics or videos to confirm obedience, but he fostered trust and honesty. He created scenes for us to walk through, giving me various choices.

Now, I'm not saying this kind of relationship always works, but I can tell you, after 4+ years taking with for hours, I felt my submission, and knew his control. It was a wonderful experience. He devoted his time to my growth, and I served him as honestly and fully as possible.

As his health declined, he sought and found a local Dom to take over my care. How awesome is that?

Anyway, he has now passed... God bless you Master S! 

I think I saw someplace an article or blog post on Greetings, but allow me please, to elaborate. I imagine most Doms have their own methods of recruiting a new sub, but to those without a tried and true routine, may I suggest a common sense approach.

Before you message someone,

1. Please complete your own profile.

2. Please read the profile of the person (Dom or sub) you wish to contact.

3. Once you contact someone, please make note, yea or nay, so you know if further contact is warrented. (I have been contacted by certain people multiple times as though it was the first time.) Don't waste your time or mine.

4. Finally, both Doms and subs are worthy of respect. Please be kind, and safe!

~V~ ?

You lead me daily through the minefields of life, taking my hand, turning my head, showing me how to walk. Your wisdom as regards our life together blows me away with its acumen. I trust you with all that concerns me, body, soul, and spirit.

Oh how I long to hear your voice in the morning and feel your embrace in the night. There is none so intimate in his touch, none so demanding or satisfying. My love seems so inadequate and insufficient. I choose to give only my best, yet it cannot compare to the depth, the height, the width, and breadth of the love you give to me.

Let my service be found pleasing in your sight, dear Master!