I'm curious, how many real life D/s relationships start online?
I, for one, am a believer in the possibility of online D/s or M/s situations. It requires a lot of work, but all good relationships require work.
"The purposes of a person’s heart are deep waters, but one who has insight draws them out." Proverbs 20:5
This seems to capture the role of a Dom pretty well, don't you think?
Years ago, I was found by an Australian Master. He had owned Slaves in his life, but as an older Man, had placed them with other Doms to continue their growth.
First, he befriended me and won my trust by confirming himself. Our first conversations were about the many stories I have written. He offered to help me put them together into an ebook to sell. A few days after this chat, I received a program disk to help create the ebook.
His genuine interest was to aide in my growth, so gave me hours and hours of his time daily - no pics or videos to confirm obedience, but he fostered trust and honesty. He created scenes for us to walk through, giving me various choices. He introduced me to the whole Dominance & submission idea, and solely with kindness and great wisdom.
I still, years later, am blessed by exactly how much of his time he gave to me everyone single day, to encourage my submission, and foster my feminine growth.
Now, I'm not saying this kind of relationship always works, but I can tell you, after 4+ years talking with him for hours, I felt my submission, and knew his control. It was a wonderful experience. He devoted his time to my growth, and I served him as honestly and fully as possible.
As his health declined, he sought and found a local Dom to take over my care. How awesome is that?
Anyway, he has now passed... God bless you Master S!
