Highway to hell

I have recently been talking to a lot of doms/dommes and realized one thing. For the most part they hide their emotions from their subs. I don’t quite understand this? Some explain that as the dominant they shouldn’t show emotions and in a way weakness. I find this truly baffling. At the end of the day we are human and also have emotions. I did notice for some of my friends things haven’t gone well with their subs since they aren’t always willing to talk their emotions out. I personally like talking about my emotions and what I like and things like that with my subs and I like for them to tell me too. I feel that when you talk to your subs about emotions they tend to open up more and in a way trust you more and it makes it so that when they are going through something painful they will come to you instead of hiding! A friend of mine recently got his heart broken by his sub. He didn’t want to talk to her about how he felt emotionally and how her distancing herself from him was hurting him and probably in a way also hurting her. He instead came to me to talk about his emotions! And it’s not just him. I’ve had other of my dom friends come talk to me about their emotions instead of their subs. It makes me want to strangle them.... go tell your damn sub how you feel! Grow some balls or something and tell them what’s bothering you and try to find a middle ground! Life is about emotions and understanding a trust and the same should be applied in BDSM. I don’t care if this make me a weird domme or a “fake” domme just because I’m willing to show vulnerability with my subs and tell them how I truly feel and hope that they will also tell me when something is bothering them.