A few short words, some advice if you wish to take it.
Read your audience...... I'll say it again,
Read - your - audience!
If a Dominant messages a Submissive - who has taken the time and effort giving you all the information she wants to give you, to see if you have some or any of the qualities that appeal to you! Or, and this is shocking....... YOU have the qualities she is looking for, take the time to read it!!!!
It's a scary, wannabee Dominant who will not read his audience but message you from solely your photos? No, no, no!!!
How can any Submissive have faith, trust, even from that initial message, when you haven't taken the time to read what she wants and doesn't?
Here's an example......
"I need someone who stimulates my brain, who can hold down a conversation, who listens - who I too will listen also, before anything else......."
Just a bog standard example, watered down from my bio....
If you are going to message that Submissive, without doing your homework, without taking the very FIRST step of doing your research and taking an interest in the Bio she's written.....
She's never going to hand over more than a soggy tissue to you, nevermind her Submission.
Little boys need to stop thinking they are a restrained, experienced Dominants because they can slap your ass and pull your hair
There most likely is someone for YOU but I'll l say it again, if you can't do your homework and take the time to even consider who a Submissive is - you're getting nothing more than a eye roll buddy.
One last thing if someone says "No" it means "No"
Having said that - to all of you out there who are taking the time to read one another's info, I hope you find who you're looking for.
Have a fab weekend ?