My rants

TakenLower - I would alter my way of engaging. If you’re allowing them to just “get off” without first making them prove they are worth your time then maybe that’s the problem. Maybe read my blog posts on fear, how to play the game of trust and fake subs.

Darkmistress1213​(dom female) - I always make them prove themselves. I've made new guys go weeks without coming. I've changed it so many times. . . I feel there is no way to get to know a sub online to meet in real life.

Master_Jax​(dom male){Lil Ms Gem} - I have been having similar issues with this. Don't let them beat you we're real people and also real doms so we're going to get the arseholes first. Think of it this way the worthy subs are getting the arsehole doms also. That's not saying we're on a score board with the subs it's that there's more arseholes than the worthy out there. Just keep hoping for you for me that we find them soon ill do the same until then keep posting your rules tell any potential sub what he needs to know and do to serve you. So M play safe J

Darkmistress1213​(dom female) - I'm definitely keeping to my rules.

Villmarb​(dom male) - I tend to agtee with my Dom collegue Master Jax - as i too have disengaged myself from sites as Alt.com and Fet.life as i see more and more the assholes out there milking this for all its worth - like me take the time - and yes DO not allow yourself to be sold short...and if you are looking for a dom by the way ( hint) smiles.

Darkmistress1213​(dom female) - Thanks for offer, but I refuse to submit. I am a dominant in life and in the bedroom. Submitting makes me dry up, but telling someone what to do makes me wet and tingly. I know what I want and what I need, but again appreciate the offer.

Villmarb​(dom male) - hi...sorry i did not read that youare dominant ( not a switch) so i do apologize
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Darkmistress1213​(dom female) - I've never met a mistress that is a switch.