Life is full of twists and turns ! The year started badly with a cancelled operation that was sorely needed as my quality of life was impaired! The op was rescheduled for Feb 21st, and I arrived at the allotted time and sat waiting for the event ! My inbox for a kink site pinged and there was a reply to a message from five months previously! A sub reaching out and we started chatting there was clearly a connection as we talked and talked up to the time of the op, 3.5 hours later I was out of theatre and she surprisingly was still there ! The chats continued we spoke on the phone all was good exciting hopeful !
weeks passed became months, little red flags 🚩 popped up and were brushed aside as she was perfect ! Well she wasn’t the 5 months we were together were a fraud fake sham she was a complete fantasist every part of her and her life was invented! Lesson learned !! I guess ignoring red flags 🚩 no matter the size isn’t a great idea
Life carried on I was a DD adrift for a while then another connection was made ! She is beautiful intelligent charming sexy as hell bratty but not disrespectful again we talked chatted videoed eventually met and had the most amazing time ever ( a gentleman never tells ) everything was perfect .......well no not really , as perfect as the connection is there was an issue! I couldn’t be what she wanted, I can’t give her the weekends away, the candle lit dinners , the walks on the beach !
Lesson learned !! No matter the connection some hurdles cannot be jumped
Then the craziest one to date , just last week a hello turned into an avalanche of messages sharing happenning private lives discussed all going great ! Opening up heading towards a Ddlg relationship! Not a red flag in site !
Then the chat dried up ! Excuses made , parameters were changed unexpectedly! And bang blocked everywhere, no closure or real understanding of what and why
Lesson learned !! No matter how bright the light it can still be extinguished!!
Don’t misunderstand me this is not a pity party just explaining that things happen outside of the current horrid situation that can shape us but we don’t let them define us !!
Love peace respect and safety to all my Cage friends xx
