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1 year ago. December 9, 2020 at 3:05 AM

Aftercare is so important. I've heard about it, read about it over and over in generic terms.  I understand the concept and got the concept down.  However, I didn't really understand aftercare until one day.  I was with the Brat enjoying an incredible session. Brat was on my bed, her gorgeous brown, bare ass with smooth skin facing me as she was face down on my bed. I was spanking her with my bare hand. Enjoying her reaction with each loud smack as her ass slowly started to give off a red glow. The Brat would grab the sheets, as she enjoyed each moment of the spanking from the sounds coming from her.

After the last spanking, she got up and looked at me.  I had not seen that look before but I knew its significance.  I immediately took her in with my arms and held her.  This was the aftercare I read about.  This is why it was so important to hold and comfort her.  No words, just hold her tight and let her now all would be ok, but with no words.  Later, she asked, how did you know? How did you know I needed to be held?  I really didn't know just a reaction, a sense, that she needed it and actually so did I.  It re-emphasized to me something I never forget: Aftercare is so important, don't forget it. 

When was the last time you provided or received aftercare?  What kind of aftercare was provided or received?

AveryA​(sub female) - I never received any but then again I I never felt like I needed any.
1 year ago
FearlessBrat​(sub female){H.S.} - Thank you for sharing your experience. It is awlays great to see a Dom to write. This way we learn so much more.
I have never received aftercare....although I needed. Nor there was a concern in the Dom when I informed him that I was hurt.
1 year ago
mab{His} - Cannot be overstated enough, for all involved. You touched on it a little- you needed it too. I strongly believe it works both ways for e.g. after an session the sub being physically and emotionally cared for, but for the dom, who just a short while ago was administering 'pain', to be able to now administer care. Its a rebalancing of the session, for both. Great post!
1 year ago
RedKat{Not now } - I didn’t receive aftercare with my only rl experience with a Dom times we had, my opinion now, he is and was very selfish. My current Dom will provide, I do not doubt that. This part is so important to most dynamics, in my opinion.
1 year ago

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