From Sir to u

Experiences and observations from a Sir.

How do you recover when you submissive decides suddenly to leave? How do you handle the feelings of loss? Is it supposed to feel like a vanilla death? My Dom feelings don't just turn off as they are a part of my life. I am for the most a Dom who gets very emotionally attached to a submissive. I love my submissive especially this last one. I can't imagine any other way though I know many people in the lifestyle just like participating in the D/s roleplay. Any advice on how to handle when a D/s relationship comes to an end especially for the Dom?

MsDove(sub female){Eternal Pi} - I am sorry this happened to you. How shocking. Obviously as a sub, I have a different reference point, but the depth of pain may be parallel.

The loss for me felt like a free fall. My foundation pulled right from under me. I lost my compass. I had never experienced that depth of pain, even with death of a husband who I loved totally for 27 years (vanilla).

In a love relationship, our bonds are so much deeper than vanilla, it's not the same.

9 months ago

MsDove(sub female){Eternal Pi} - The only thing I will add is that the change comes quickly, the transition will take time. My heart is with you.

9 months ago

Sweet Ginger(sub female){⚓ } - I'm glad you feel safe expressing your thoughts and feelings here, to me that shows strength. As for your question, everyone is different "forgetting " takes time . You will get through this one day at a time. Best of luck to you!

9 months ago

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ThatsSirTou(dom male)

From Sir to u

When its gone

ThatsSirTou​(dom male)

From Sir to u

When its gone

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