another lesson in "dominant weeding"
so todays email is from a young man in his late 20's. He asks if i am owned.
before a reply is crafted i go pull up his profile and i carefully read it over. and i dont miss the part where he states he has explored his dom side a little.
but remember now..he asked me if i was owned.
so his intent is to seemingly "own" me..
so here is what is posted on his profile.....
i really don't know what to say anymore cause i try putting the things I've done before and people say that all I'm looking for is sex, i post what I'm looking for and people say its not enough you're a fake....
I'm looking to be a sub, a slave i want someone to tie me up play with me put me in my place. I want to serve someone i want to be under someones wing and show me the ropes. Ive experienced being a Dom, I've experienced being tied up but it wasn't really much i want some one that can own me, yes own me...if you're a sub yes i would want to play also :)
honestly.....i can understand someone wanting a mentor. he spends more time wanting to experience play as a sub. but really he is willing to play both sides of the fence.
lets be honest here....in real life bdsm someone needs to know enough to be the person in charge. its dangerous to have someone tie you up when they dont know what they are doing
it can all be really confusing. there is way more involved than 2 folks deciding which role to "play".
and so ...here was his email that started all this
Wow awesome pics?? Are you currently owned?...not much ....but after thinking about it ...here was my answer
im owned. and i would even tell you im owned anyway cause you are a male sub...and there is a big difference from a Dominant who knows his shit and a male sub who is looking for kinky sex. im not a whore. i am 57 years old. why is it that kids your age are always looking for older women??? cause you are messes and the women your age are chasing the old men cause they THINK they might be easier to hang out with? good luck
but actually i understand why young adults chase after older members of the opposite sex.....to learn from their experience.....but from what ive seen lately of the talent out there...you can be an old person and still not know a lot about fun bdsm play.
so i am thinking that trying to get sexed is just that....someones attempt to get stuff for free and hopefully it will backfire all the time of them for them being ignorant and trying to use people.
think what you will of me but the above is the way ive been taught to discern the emails that i receive. you can be sure that if i have sex with anyone that there is something they can and will do for me or they arent getting laid.
i am sharing this for the other women to see another glimpse of the real bullshit that gets dished out.
read the profiles of the other people. pay attention to stuff before you get involved with them.
we have had a recent issue with a sub collector. im not naming names but we need to start speaking openly about it.
there is poly. but poly has nothing to do with people who collect subs making each sub think that they are the only sub. its a discussion we need to have.