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Looking for a hot fully bi male for...
04/22/2019
We're looking for a very hot bi male single preferred looking for a Primal Dominant couple
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ISO Sub Male in S. Cali
04/20/2019
Looking for a submissive male to see several times a month,, or as I beckon him.
NOT looking for any live-in situations that would overtake either of our lives.
NOT looking for a switch.
Open to a male between the ages of 22 - 50. Must be fit/in-shape, attractive, intelligent, and have a stable career/life.
You need not be experienced but you at least must be smart, intuitive, and easily teachable.
I would like us to chat (for a reasonable amount of time, NOT indefinitely) and develop an initial degree of respect and trust before meeting. To be clear, our first meeting will not be a sexual encounter. This will give us a chance to decide if there is chemistry.
You must live in either San Diego or Los Angeles area so that it would be convenient for us to see each other at least a few times per month.
Please be courteous in your first message. Any introduction that starts with “Hey” will be automatically deleted. Do not send me nude photos unless I request them.
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Be my bitch
04/19/2019
I’m looking for a submissive man to come worship me, I joy mind control and pegging until he’s learned his lesson.
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I want it all.
04/14/2019
I'm looking for a submissive for online to start, RL at my discretion. Trans men (ftm) are welcome.

My profile will tell you all you need to know about me to start. Take the time to read it so you don't waste either of our time.
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MATURED MISTRESS NEED A MAID SISSY SLAVE
04/14/2019
I NEED A MATURED SISSY SLAVE WHO IS ALSO READY TO RELOCATE IF NEEDED . SEND ME A DIRECT MESSAGE FOR ANY QUESTION AND MORE DETAILS .
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Black BBW Domme in Seattle seeks submissive James Evans
04/12/2019
I’m looking for a steady submissive Seattle man who is ideally between 42 and 56 years old, who enjoys tease and denial - ideally chastity, being of domestic and body service, sensual and sexual domination; has a masochistic streak, and a car. More information on my specific kink interests are in my profile.

I'm willing to consider men slightly younger than 42. Ultimately I would like a female led relationship with particularly compatible candidates. Race, height, and weight not an issue: respect and attitude is.

In return, I can offer cuddles, doting, sex play (if not release), a fair number of toys to taunt you with, and free or reduced-price entry into many CSPC events during dates - hence the need for a car.
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Hello potential Gentlemen, Submissive or Switch Gentlemen
04/07/2019
Greetings Gentlemen
I hope all is well mentally, physically and spiritually with you. Anyway I am interested in an Submissive or Switch type of Gentleman who is located in California. I prefer the Bay area if possible unless you are willing to travel to me. Btw I am seeking friendship first(I AM NOT INTERESTED IN FLESHY WAYS OR FETISHES in the beginning).I must have connection with your soul first. I understand this is "The Cage" but I love myself too much to be doing hookups with random people. Not my style and never will be. No judgement to others but this is my post and my wants. Besides I don't like to share or engage in anything that will be temporary ?. Also I will no longer respond to messages who obviously did not read my profile. If you have a problem with what I said above OR on my profile ...keep it moving darling and I wish you the best still.---> So to the serious GENTLEMEN who have no problem being Submissive or Switch or just a gentleman with no title..you are always welcome to contact me. ***Once AGAIN PLEASE READ MY PROFILE FIRST BEFORE CONTACTING ME!!!** Anyway enjoy your day and best of luck to everyone on here.
Much Respect and Soul Power to all?
SOUL Goddess?
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LOOKING FOR SUB IN THE SAN DESTION AREA
04/07/2019
YOU MUST BE TRAINED AND CIRCUMCISED
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dom female looking for sub man
04/05/2019
looking for a young submissive guy (age 18-25) to treat as my dolly. its been my biggest fantasy to have a cute gothic boy who will let me use him. must be okay wearing womans clothing (dresses, lingerie, etc.)
contact me for more info
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Bossy Marxist Domme Seeks Agreeable Sub
04/03/2019
-I decide what/how much you eat
-I decide when you eat
-I decide what you wear
-I decide what you do with your hair
-I decide your monthly budget
-I decide when u jerk off and what you jerk off to.
-I decide what Marxist literature you read in your spare time (and yes it will always be Marxist)

You don't have to be cute or young, just be obedient.

Hit my DMs ?
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Lifestyle Domme female northeast usa looking for real life sub/ slaves
04/02/2019
Preference for cute guys 18-55
Would love to find a 247 tpe live in partner but open to play
Open to strictly d/s or romantic
Preference for asian/latino men
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Petite Ebony Goddess looking for a NEW OBEDIENT SLAVE Ready to serve
03/28/2019
IM GODDESS.
I’m a young dominant woman looking for a submissive or slave to call my own, to please my needs and be rewarded if they were good, if they displeased me - they will be punished, no exceptions.
& I’ve been searching for my newest bitchboy.

I’m an experienced goddess now for 4 years. Im very discrete as you will be. I know some slaves don’t like anyone to know what they’re doing. & that’s fine. Your secrets safe with me unless ......

I’m a firm domme, you follow my rules and orders and I will reward you. You disobey me and you will be punished.

I love denying my submissives orgasms, tying them up and marking them. (not permanently, mostly hickeys— I love showing everyone what is mine.) I love to overstimulate my submissives sometimes. I love using gags, restraints, blindfolds and toys on my submissives. — of course, i love doing much more than just this, this is only to name a few.

I love impact play and sensual play— and many more.
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young dom
03/27/2019
Hello! I'm a 20 year old domme, and I'm a huge weeb.
I love having deep conversations, but also love being silly and joking around. I'm good for beginners and also people who have been in the community a while. I can be a soft or strict domme depending on my sub's needs and mood. I love cuddling and I'm okay with long distance. I am pan so I like girls as well, but tend to prefer males. I enjoy subs who cross dress and femboys!
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Sensual Domination is my Path - Serious, No BS
03/22/2019
I am a mature Dominant ebony seeking my submissive male. Strictly online, and if that works, we will consider more. I am fun, extremely quirky, attractive, well groomed and mannered, creative, sensual, enjoy intelligent conversation, love to appreciate and reward, enjoy teasing and I am willing to learn how to care for you as my submissive.
You are at least forty years old (and if our relationship develops and moves into reality (out of cyber space), be able to travel to me at least one weekend a month). Canadian/US citizen, caucasian, speaks fluent English and ideally knows who Rumi is. You will be quized. If form Europe, you will have to show how you might be available, if we become more.

I am seeking that special submissive who is healthy mentally, physically and spiritually.
I am seeking friendship FIRST. To develop into a relationship, I must feel a connection with you.
I do not like to share, so that means you have only me as your Dominant.
All who BS receive it back 10 fold in the face. All who present honestly, receive that. Karma is.
Want more info? Contact me. When you do, address me as Dear M.Q.H.
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Russian Goddess Princess needs a submissive sub
03/09/2019
i am a true femme fatale and wicked enchantress, i am the girl you fantasize about but could never have and now i might allow you to crawl to my feet , the cruel attention you will receive from me will give you the most exhilaration experience of your life. I am looking for a new toy to mold and explore with. Right now I'm looking for a sub who will go through the rigorous training . i'm looking for a sub to use , love and train. i am a very sweet lady when you get to know me. but behind closed doors i'm an animal who likes being in control.. Can host and travel
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Dominant woman looking for Her submissive guy/ husband
03/06/2019
I would love to look for my submissive husband guy/ husband/ boyfriend/ friend
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Newbie
02/27/2019
Maryland based. Looking for a sub male. Dipped my toes in a few years with an ex. He was a sub that brought out the true pegging dom out of me :) Looking for someone who wants a long term partnership.
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Dominant Woman looking for Submissive.
02/04/2019
Hello there.

I’m a young dominant woman looking for a submissive or slave to call my own, to please my needs and be rewarded if they were good, if they displeased me - they will be punished, no exceptions.

I’m a firm domme, you follow my rules and orders and I will reward you. You disobey me and you will be punished.

A bit about me as a domme:

- I don’t care what gender or sexuality you are, if we have a connection that doesn’t matter to me.
- I might be firm with my rules and orders, but I am still understanding. If you are my submissive I will care for you, listen to your troubles and be there for you.
- I strive to never be unfair or unjust towards my submissives and my decisions regarding them.
- I will do everything in my power as your Domme to put you at ease and to help you be the best version of yourself.


I love denying my submissives orgasms, tying them up and marking them. (not permanently, mostly hickeys— I love showing everyone what is mine.) I love to overstimulate my submissives sometimes. I love using gags, restraints, blindfolds and toys on my submissives. — of course, i love doing much more than just this, this is only to name a few.

I love impact play and sensual play— and many more.

I’m currently just looking for an online/LDR submissive or slave, as I’m a busy woman. But with the potential of meeting up when we both feel comfortable and feel a connection.

There is more to say, but the rest I’ll leave for those truly interested in getting to know me.
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Maam looking for a good boy
01/21/2019
52yr old dom seeking trained sub. Cum to me to enjoy the life you've chosen.
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DOMINANT TRANSWOMAN SEEKING SLAVE ONLINE ONLY.
01/08/2019
WHAT I’M SEEKING Part 1 or 2 :
This aspect of my profile, is so crucial to be read and very much understood. I want the slaves/subs who read this to be clear that they’re capable of embodying what it is I’m seeking. If you are unsure, or know you can’t fulfill my needs, please refrain from wasting my time as I don’t appreciate games. If you’re a serious candidate, and you feel you are exactly what I want then feel free to forward me a message. You’ll be expected to do the following when writing to myself.
1.) You’ll greet me by referring to myself as Ms. Carmen in the initial first message. All other messages/correspondences you may refer to me as Maam, Miss, Ms, Mistress. Always emphasize the M as a form of respect for your Dominant.
2.) You’ll attach a clear face photo, nothing nude unless requested by myself.
3.) You’ll send a detailed message, explaining who you are, why you feel you’d be a great candidate, and what your goals to appease me, limits ect.

WHAT I’M SEEKING Part 2 of 2 :
The following is the set requirements you’d need to fulfill prior to messaging me.
1.) Canada/U.S MEN ONLY
2.) 20-45 Years Old ( On the rarest of occasions I will accept an older slave )
3.) Caucasian Only
4.) Must speak fluent English
TASKS :
1.) Cum Swallowing
2.) Piss Drinking
3.) Orgasm Denial ( Denial Journal will be also included via email daily )
4.) Edging
5.) Essays/Tasks ( depending on what I’m in the mood for )
6.) Must be willing to either own toys or purchase toys such as dildo/anal beads
Anything else I require will be brought up within correspondences.
YOU MUST OWN A WEBCAM/MIC as you’ll be required to perform tasks either in video or picture format. You will willingly offer DAILY to complete any requests.
I’m currently using KIK/Hangouts and I will be establishing an email address for slaves to submit to me email correspondences/tasks ect.
Thank You for taking time to read my profile, I hope to hear from you, if not all the best with finding your Dominant counterpart.
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