Dominant Women Seeking Submissive Men

  Houston, Texas

I'm nurturing, I will love all over you and then I will get demanding and dominate you until I am nice again.

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35 y/o      New York, New York

Newly discovered Domme with not much experience interested in exploring and learning more about the lifestyle. I want to genuinely connect within a FLR with someone who is worthwhile. Not interested in just hooking up. We can start off by getting to know each other and connecting online then progress to in person. Preferably want a slave to be between the ages of 25-45. Only serious inquiries only.

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35 y/o      New York, New York

Newly discovered Domme with not much experience interested in exploring and learning more about the lifestyle. I want to genuinely connect within a FLR with someone who is worthwhile. Not interested in just hooking up. We can start off by getting to know each other and connecting online then progress to in person. Preferably want a slave to be between the ages of 25-45. Only serious inquiries only.

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30 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

Hey everyone! I’m a neurodivergent Domme with over a decade of experience looking for a domestic slave (male, be it pan gay trans ace bi hetero, etc - I welcome all) who is young (27-34 preferably), fit, caring, honest, kind, with few limits and who withholds the same values and beliefs as I do, available full-time (this is a 247 lifestyle longterm/permanent position) for strictly nonsexual domestic service. A boy who believes that his/their Owners happiness, approval, and ability to go through Her day to day a little easier because of him, is its own reward.
I am NOT looking for a love interest or sexual partner (I am biromantic and asexual, taken romantically) - Ive been in a loving and committed FLR relationship for years now and will not compromise that for anyone. This is my lifestyle choice but I would never shove it in the faces is of vanillas - theres great power in subtly. And Id appreciate the same respect from Male Dominants. Thank you.

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  Florida

Very kinky and dominant mistress looking for muscular submissive guys who like being told what to do. I expect total submission.

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26 y/o      California

Looking to establish something recurring and long term. Must be willing to travel. Bonus points if you enjoy housework and/or have a beard.

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  St. Louis, Missouri

Hi! I'm a soft Dom looking for the right sub. Potentially a long term arrangement. Would love to chat and get to know you, find out if we have the same kinks, and get on from there.

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  Michigan

Love me, Please me, Pleasure me, Obey me and Worship me

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  Evansville, Indiana

I’m located in Evansville Indiana I’m looking for submissive male. If you are not local and do not travel do not waste my time. The correct answer is always Yes Mistress. No exchange of anything except sex for sex period. Be disease free and drug free and have excellent hygiene

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  New York, New York

I love dominating a man and instructing him on exactly how I want to be pleased. When you’re with me I’ll always take care of you, so that means you have to go the extra mile for me every time. Make me proud and I’ll reward you accordingly ?

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27 y/o      South Padre Island, Texas

I'm Jay, I'm looking for a sub who is still a man's man. I want to start my life with the right man. Reach out and let's see if we click.

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53 y/o      Seattle, Washington

I'm looking for male Puget Sound residents, less than an hour's drive from me, within 7 years of my age in either direction, who are available for a publicly recognized relationship. I’m looking for a body slave (massage, mani-pedis, dreadlock maintenance, sexual services), houseboy (cooking, cleaning, organizing), chauffeur (you should have a vehicle), and kink event companion (whenever that’s next likely to happen).

To get down to the nitty gritty: I want you either in a chastity device, or to assault your genitals. I’m a sadist and find CBT delightful, relaxing, hilarious, and stress-relieving. I also want to hold the key to your chastity device, restrict your orgasms, and be the main focus of all womanhood for you.

If you'd like to meet to chat, I'm up for a G-PG rated beverage and a daytime walk. If you find being called cute, being cooed and fussed over humiliating then I hope you like humiliation because I’m likely going to do it anyway.

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  Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

23 Female looking to explore my dominant side (I’m a switch but I lean more towards a gentle femdom). In some of my relationships, I’ve *slightly* taken a more dominant role (tying them up, blind-folding, me on top, sitting on their face, lightly choking, etc.) But, I want to take it to the next level. I’ve always wanted to do anal play, cock rings, pegging, praising, edging, orgasm control, collars, etc. I feel like the previous guys I’ve been with just do what I what to please me and/or get it over with, but I want a guy who REALLY wants it. NEEDS it.
I'm looking for a strictly s/d relationship (preferably no romance), with someone between the ages of 20-28 and living within a reasonable distance of me. I will only be with someone who I'm attracted to, and my type generally is tall, dark hair, light eyes, good hygiene, and physically fit. Personality-wise: someone positive, talkative, a good communicator, and understanding. Check out my profile for more info on me.

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  Cape Town, Western Cape

I am a curvy woman looking for my perfect pet who will worship me. I am looking for something serious and someone devoted to pleasing his Dom. What you seek in turn, whether it is discipline, love, humiliation, etc. can be negotiated.

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25 y/o      Florida

As the title says I’m looking for a sissy. A really pretty one. I want to dress you up completely to look like a woman for my viewing pleasure. I want a sissy that could fit a kawaii aesthetic to a T. If you think you are the sissy of my dreams, message me. Don’t make the message boring or rude, I won’t answer.

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  Summerfield, Florida

A live-in position is available for a slave-minded individual who is selfless, kind, and able-bodied. Non-smoker, with no criminal background necessary. You must have a driver's license and not be allergic to animals. Make an STD panel available, and not have an objectionable list of kinks. No "do me" slaves as that's not what I'm looking for. slaves are not "do me" types. I am looking for a strictly service lifestyle houseboy and gardener/cook housekeeper. (not a sissy housemaid)
Height /weight proportionate and skills needed to help bring in some income to support the house...
Bright Blessings
Mistress Winter and Mistress Phoenix
House SacredCircle

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  Atlanta, Georgia

I'm seeking a long term relationship with a single submissive Black male. Only seeking black men that are looking for a female led relationship.

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  Livingston, Montana

Honestly pretty new to sites like this and my experience is still relatively new.
However I'm into pretty boy's who may enjoy.
Pegging
Mommy kink
Degrading
Bondage
Etc.
I'm into quite a bit.
Right now I'm just looking for someone to play with online, if it goes further then that great! But i don't want to make any promises.

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47 y/o      New York, New York

If you are a sub who thinks his Domme should be able to use him for sexual pleasure (of the intercourse kind), and are strong enough to have your orgasms (or the lack thereof!) managed down to the millisecond, then you’re the sub for me. Seeking a SINGLE, otherwise “Alpha-seeming” submissive gentlemen, clean-shaven, preferably professional and Caucasian, ages 40-55, for a hybrid kinky-vanilla LTR of the FLR variety. I’ve had a lot of practice and experiences in the last 5 years, and would love to only be spending time on these sites finding guys to entertain me in my spare time, while being fully satisfied by my #1 Alpha Sex Toy Boyfriend (pursuant to Owned Property). If interested, read my whole profile and check the instructions in the final pic. Look forward to forging into total weirdness with you soon! ?

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  Maple Ridge, British Columbia

Worship my pussy eat and young my ass until I cum all over you let my grind your face

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  France

I am looking for my sub.
Having you answering to my every need is my pleasure.
You are loyal, trusting, obedient and want to devote yourself to me .
I speak english and french .
Let's talk and see if you will be a good sub for me .

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  Minnesota

Seeking a sub that has some knowledge base of hormonal benefits of Chastity and that can practice subtly and with etiquette in public.

The sub will have some understanding or desire to learn more about how Chasity increases and balances out the neurotransmitters (such as dopamine, prolactin, oxytocin, and the concentration of receptors) where sex and orgasms are concerned.

Penetrating sub develops new pleasure receptors, and this will keep him in a continuous state of bliss at the hormonal level. Sub learns how to reduce refraction time and lessens depression. Sub learns health benefits while also reducing negative emotions and attitudes, and replacing these emotions with intense feelings of attraction, connection, intimacy, bonding, devotion, and safety.

Seeking permanent or full time live-in domestic servant / personal caretaker position. Having some domestic and personal skills is a real bonus – handyman, geek, chef, housekeeper, and chauffer. Stable and able to work remotely, already retired, or has appropriate means to relocate and provide for their keep. Dominant asks that the sub deal with child and divorce issues and all other distractions be dealt with prior to leaving for this relationship. Now is the time to focus on sub’s new relationship.

Asking once connection has been made and interest confirmed on both sides that daily texting will begin. Virtual meetings will be expected shortly thereafter, with a face-to-face meeting within the first month. This will mean that a sub will fly in to meet in a public forum for at least a weekend to establish relationship and rapport. Alternatively, a central location could be identified, and both the Mistress and the sub would fly to the central location.

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34 y/o      Nanaimo, British Columbia

i am to be worshiped with out question

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  Seaford, Delaware

Must be close by or willing/able to relocate.
Serious replies only, please.
Animal friendly is a must, I have pets.

About me:
25
Veteran (USMC)
A.S. Business Administration
Aspiring author
Wide-variety of kinks, experienced.

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  England

I'm new to BDSM, but have given spanking and golden shower before. I'm female, in my early 40s, petite, in pretty good shape. Keen to find a male sub aged 25-45, either an experienced sub to show me the ropes, or a novice to learn with. Looking for someone to meet in real life, probably once a week, but perhaps online at other times. I am looking for a BDSM relationship where we could meet regularly, but not everyday as I have work and commitments that keep me busy at other times. Ideally looking for a long-ish relationship, 6 months or more, where we can build trust together and have fun exploring things. Not sure yet what my preferences and limit would be, but looking for someone to discuss them openly with and work together on this. Probably would tend more towards fun punishments or the lighter end of punishments. I'm very safely conscious and I will be keen to learn how to do things properly and safely. Please get in touch if this sounds like what you're looking for.

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24 y/o      England

Hey Girls and Guys,

I'm a bisexual, trans, Domme.

Looking for playmates. Initially online *but* if you are UK based / European then I would be longer term interested in going in person.

I am right at the start of my transition - so despite identifying as a woman, it will take a while to adjust. If this is an issue please do not bother contacting me.

If you haven't been put off yet, please send me a paragraph telling me about you (vanilla and kink) and what about my ad/profile interests you

Kisses,

Ms Cait xx

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31 y/o      Allentown, Pennsylvania

I’m looking for a bi submissive male. To train alongside my other bi submissive male. Semi local to me. I have a different style than most dominants. My profile is a bit bare because I encourage questions so feel free to ask them.

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23 y/o      Clermont, Quebec

I want a male submissive for any perver experiences

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23 y/o      Clermont, Quebec

I want to forced a male submissive to dress up as a girl

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  New York, New York

Hello✨New(ish) to the scene but well-informed and safe. Ready to dive in.

When men submit to me, I feel powerful and I love it. I’ve spent most of my life assuming I am asexual, but have found recently that I adore when a boy does what I say in any context.

I have a lot of anger about men I’d like to get out.

Let’s chat online first, or maybe forever if you are far away. I worked in publishing before show business so I’m great with words ?

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  Massachusetts

Seeking a sub male who loves to be humiliated as much as I love being a total bitch. Online. I want to be able to tell you what to do any time of day. If I tell you to go get yourself some new fishnets and strut for me, I expect photos within the hour. I’m an excellent writer and expect the same energy. One word responses result in punishment. Message me to learn more.

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  Milaca, Minnesota

fairly new to this kind of meeting. would look forward to new experiences.

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  Toronto, Ontario

Fit, strong and young mistress looking for a slave to go beyond obedience. Complete devotion and servitude. I need a good bitch boy who is a truly kinky submissive. Ready to gagged and bound. Spanked until beet red. Eager to please your mistress however I want.

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  Alaska

Hello boys. I’m looking for a naughty little slut to play with. Local preferred. Message me, let’s see if we click

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33 y/o      Waukegan, Illinois

Want sub to take what I give them with no talk back. Give me a chance to build trust

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  United States

I want a boytoy who can keep my interest. Here is your test.. To the world- I have a vanilla life with an office job surrounded by men- I’ve had this fantastic of logging into the site at work and reading the most naughtiest fantasies. One after an other. I want to feel my panties get wetter and wetter at my desk.
Here the rest- Message me tell me what you want me to do to you/ what you want to do to me/ whatever you think is interesting and gets me hot enough to want more. Good luck ??

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  California

Seeking a submissive bitch boy who loves a good pegging .

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  Belleville, Illinois

Are you a sub. male looking to be owned. When you message me tell me how long you have been a sub. What you are into. .

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52 y/o      England

I need a regular and reliable submissive man for garden duties who drives and is willing & able to drive to occasional Events for BDSM playtime.
Lives Havering, Essex, UK
Events in Kent once a month.
FemDom munches North London and Blackfriars occasionally.
London FenDom club every 2 months.

Initially a chat here on cage, then aSkype chat to verify we are both real and mutually compatible.
IF all goes well coffee meet then I decide from there.

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34 y/o      Lisbon, Lisbon

I like rock and metal, books, videogames podcasts, I am a progressive, I'm vegan and love to dance to old music.
I am looking for something meaningful. For the right person I am willing to relocate.

If you believe we are similar yet you are on the total opposite of me when it comes to BDSM and you like to be bossed around in and out of the bedroom, I invite you to read my profile.

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  Washington, District of Columbia

Hi, I'm looking for a subby male that I can play with online. I love edging, chastity and making guys beg to come. If you're interested, send me a message and we can chat to see if we're compatible.

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  United Kingdom

Looking for a lifestyle control arrangement, love to have a man who is aroused by feet. My domination style is to control daily life tasks and give punishments when disobeyed. I will reward you for doing well too. Check my profile for more info

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  Austin, Texas

I am seeking a local submissive male . Someone who adores me and will serve me to my liking . Local is the key word.. Round Rock area ..

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40 y/o      New Jersey

I am intrigued by the physiological and emotional effects of extreme arousal and orgasm denial on the male. I am seeking an unattached male for an in depth, immersive experience of exploring the boundaries of arousal. Exploration will include submitting to prolonged daily sessions of cock teasing while secured in bondage. I am very skilled at discovering and exploiting arousal triggers in men and am also an expert in orgasm control and denial. Sessions may last from 2 to 7 hours. While not in session, you will be locked in a custom fitted chastity device that I will provide.
My preferences:
- Must be heterosexual male.
- Age 23 and up. Younger men preferred.
- Able to be available daily for in-person arousal sessions.
- Able to wear chastity device at all times while not in session.

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  New Zealand

Hello all looking for that special sub who enjoys being owned with trust communication and lots of play message me if you ready

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19 y/o      Kingston, New York

I’m Mistress Kieran or Miss K and I am a non-sexual (asexual) dominant female, and I’m looking for an obedient submissive to devote themselves to me and my discipline for a long, loving relationship. I’m 5’5, and my weight is none of your business, I work and go to college so my time is limited but I am dedicated. Don’t be shy, message me little lambs.

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  Michigan

I am currently accepting applications for a new submissive. Be sure to read my profile in its entirety before sending me a message. Low effort messages will be promptly ignored, seek to impress me, and if your efforts are clear I will always minimally provide a response. I am an experienced Femdom, I am what your wish for in your wildest dreams. You need to prove to me that you are willing to put in the effort required to be worthy of my time. ((For all you pretty boys sending me pictures thinking that's going to cut it, I am married and I am not looking for a lover, I don't give a rat's ass what you look like, I want a dedicated submissive.)

P.S I should not have to remind anyone of this, but since so many fail at this in their opener my honorific is Mistress, address me as such.

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29 y/o      Russell, Kansas

Yes I am transgender but I am not medically started transitioning yet as I want to have kids I am not to sure exactly what I am seeking in a relationship as my eyes have been opened up with past experiences and would love to explore other kinks but message me if interested and ask any questions as I am an open book males need not message me unless there is a female dominant as well I have been hurt to many times by men and there fore will never go back to just men

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  United States

I'm a 20 year old switch (don't get too excited, you will only experience my dominant side) looking for chastity keys to hold. I expect you to understand your place serving me, pleasing me, and being humiliated by me.
I may ask you to stay in chastity for extended periods of time, and I won't always have time for you because I travel, but I will always respect your limits.

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  Mission Viejo, California

Hello, I'm semi-new to the BDSM scene. I'm mostly into pet-play but of the anime variety. I'm not really into severely punishing my sub, I just really want a sub who will worship me everyday, adore me, give me praises, tell me he loves me, and let me give them gifts. I can get rougher if needed, but really not into brats. I just want something that will be with me long term as I am very demi-sexual. I'm mostly looking for something online and if local, we can talk about hanging out.

Catboy stuff, lingerie, anything pretty girl on him is nice. I just really like the ears and tail concept.

I'm a big anime and video game person, so I prefer to get along on those levels. I don't like my subs having no sense of the arts.

I am currently married, but my spouse has allowed me to have a sub/pet I can have. My last stub can no longer be my sub and he set my expectation pretty high.

My favorite types are twinks. I really love thinner body types and love to be called master.

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65 y/o      Panama

Are you ready to finally surrender fully to your longtime submissive yearnings to serve a powerful FEMDOM?

Then, here is your rare opportunity for a permanent and fulltime live-in domestic servant and personal caretaker position. Will train with a strict disciplinary style to my precise likings.

Maybe you know you are a submissive slave type but have held back because life happened, but you are now ready to finally be freed with the right Owner.

Having some domestic and personal skills is a real bonus--handyman, geek, chef, masseuse, housekeeper, chauffeur, gardener, name your talent...

Must be stable and work remotely, already be retired, or have appropriate means to relocate and provide for your keep. No working outside the home. Age doesn't matter if you otherwise qualify.

No kids or other distractions from back home. Now is the time to focus on your new slave existence and duties.

If you know you are a submissive with a slave heart and are ready to relocate and surrender to obedience training in a 24/7/365 position in a tropical paradise, you need to respond and convince me that you are the one for this position.

See profile for complete details.

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  Birmingham, England

I need a regular and reliable submissive man for home and garden duties

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  Croatia

Couple seeking slave online
Mistress and master seeking hlty good looking slave who know what he or she looking for and who willing to give body and mind to new oweners.We need only real slave so dont bother us if you are just horny you need to be able do day task not having to much limits or problem to reward owener also we dont read messages if you dont put your kinks limits pic and why you think you can be oure perfect slave.If you finde yourself in this feel free to contact us oh and if you have hangout send your id.

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  Toronto, Ontario

Looking for a new toy to train and do as I say

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67 y/o      Fort Lauderdale, Florida

right now I m in nashville tn seeking a submissive husband between the ages of 60 -90

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66 y/o      Michigan

My dream is to become the owner/wife of a submissive man. I am both loving and strict. Must be ages between 50 and 62. Check out my profile.

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45 y/o      Georgia

I am seeking a chore slave. Though I have several kinks and fetishes, because of the waves of liars and time-wasters, for now I want only a chore slave. I have no use for a closet slave. If you are married, I am not interested in you at all, unless your significant other is aware that you are a sub/slave and you serve. If you lie to them, you would lie to me, I loathe liars and find you a waste of space. Thief? I follow middle eastern law with thieves and blackmailers have horrible things that happen to them. If you are new to the scene, that’s fine. But have a clue what D/s means.

 

I only want a chore slave. It may grow to more(as in kink, not a relationship), and you can hold your breathe, you may or may not get disappointed. I don’t want anything more than a chore slave. I am ridiculously picky when it comes to a mate and can pretty much guarantee you  aren’t what I am looking for.

And yes, I have over 20 years in the scene.  And no, I won’t pay a slave for anything, ever. This includes him trying to move in and me covering his expenses or a freaking plane ticket! Not moving here, not cleaning, not cooking, not trying to live with me free of charge, not him eating my food, not him trying to do anything that cost me money. Sex? You’re a slave. You’re beneath me. Alpha slave hoping for sex? Again, I doubt you meet all my requirements… but keep holding you’re breath. It makes me laugh.

Basically, I seek a true slave that understands, it’s what makes the Domme happy. If he lives to please, that’s my man. Notice I say, ‘man’? I don’t like females. Sissy? Maybe. The last one had no idea what it means to be an actual sub. Kind of burned me against them. But hey, I might try again. Strange and bizarre? We would likely get along. Crazy? Let’s face it, everyone in this world is nuts from one degree or another. But if you do that extreme hot and cold or freak out modes, you need to move on. I’m not interested. Age doesn’t really matter. Sexuality doesn’t really matter. But for the record, heteroflexible, pan, bi, and questioning have a better chance of more with me. Questions? Bring it. I allow them and don’t mind them.

 

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  Toronto, Ontario

This is a full figured Dominat Black female looking for a longterm sub that will be loyal and obedient to all of her needs! I need a sub that is in Toronto serious inquiries only.

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  Tacoma, Washington

Hello. I'm technically a switch but I'm looking for a sub male to satisfy my dom side. Full disclosure, I already have a partner who satisfies my sub side and he's very aware of this account. It's not a secret to him at all, so there won't be any sneaking around. Alright, now that that's out of the way...

I'm looking for a male sub, preferably one in WA state or the west coast. I'm fine with starting online but the end goal is to move into real life. If I collar any sub male, it would be with the understanding that anything we had would be a friends with benefits situation. This is not to say I'd have no interest in getting to know you. Actually, I'd prefer a friendly relationship and I prefer getting to know my subs before taking any next steps. What I'm simply saying is we'd be friends, we'd share bdsm but that would be the limit.

You can read more on my profile but I'll provide a brief summary of me and bdsm here.

I consider myself a newbie because I've been and out of the lifestyle. I'm interested in male subs who enjoy body worship, facesitting, pegging, service (cooking, cleaning, massages, etc) and prefer a stern mistress over a cruel one. I'm not really one for yelling and don't enjoy brats. When I say something, just do it and that's it. I'm not fighting you on stuff. I'll simply leave. Thanks.

Lastly, please check out my profile before responding to see how compatible we are.

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  United Kingdom

I’m looking for a sissy or submissive male to do as I say . There is 2 tasks u must do before I take u on board . Message me if you are interested ...

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