Dominant Women Seeking Submissive Men

37 y/o      Delaware

Me:
-Domme, but can switch temporarily with the right partner.
-Takes no shit.
-Monogamous.
-37, 5'5, sz 18/curvy, green eyes, short brown hair. Happy to trade photos.
-Interested in humiliation, public play, open to other stuff.
-Looking to build gradually toward a long term/romantic D/s relationship, NOT casual.
-Sapiosexual, demisexual, demiromantic, slow mover, depending.
-Visual artist, cook, mycologist, junglist, raver.

You:
-Cisgendered male.
-Local to the Delmarva/DMV area, or able to travel frequently.
-Intelligent. The moreso, the better.
-Completely single -- no Domme/girlfriend/wife/whoever. I do NOT condone cheating, and will not be your secret.
-Not a physical 10, but not a tragedy either.
-Passionate about something, open-minded, deferential, respectful.
-Not a doormat, & are able to stand up for yourself.
-Not a sissy, but possibly open to some feminization elements.
-Fiesty, but NOT a brat.

Read my profile before you respond to this.

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29 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

Hey everyone! I’m a neurodivergent Domme with over a decade of experience looking for a domestic slave (male, be it pan gay trans ace bi hetero, etc - I welcome all) who is young (27-34 preferably), fit, caring, honest, kind, with few limits and who withholds the same values and beliefs as I do, available full-time (this is a 247 lifestyle longterm/permanent position) for strictly nonsexual domestic service. A boy who believes that his/their Owners happiness, approval, and ability to go through Her day to day a little easier because of him, is its own reward.
I am NOT looking for a love interest or sexual partner (I am biromantic and asexual, taken romantically) - Ive been in a loving and committed FLR relationship for years now and will not compromise that for anyone. This is my lifestyle choice but I would never shove it in the faces is of vanillas - theres great power in subtly. And Id appreciate the same respect from Male Dominants. Thank you.

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30 y/o      Allentown, Pennsylvania

I’m looking for my perfect little bitch. I don’t put much in my profile because I believe in asking questions. Looking for someone particularly local to the Berwick and surrounding areas. I’m not your typical dominant female and have a very unique style.

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27 y/o      Texas

I'm an experienced Lifestyle Ebony Domina in search of a true slave who's ready for long-term Ownership in a TPE. A male that knows his place and is ready to serve and worship his Superior. I'm looking for an unattached older male 36+ that's aware of his sub/slave nature and knows that he needs a Domina to guide him as she sees fit. I expect complete servitude, submission, obedience and devotion of the slave that belongs to me. I believe in discipline, training and molding to my liking. The household of course would be a matriarchal one in that I am the head of the household and my slave follows- ALWAYS!

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  Toronto, Ontario

Fit, strong and young mistress looking for a slave to go beyond obedience. Complete devotion and servitude. I need a good bitch boy who is a truly kinky submissive. Ready to gagged and bound. Spanked until beet red. Eager to please your mistress however I want.

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  Alaska

Hello boys. I’m looking for a naughty little slut to play with. Local preferred. Message me, let’s see if we click

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32 y/o      Waukegan, Illinois

Want sub to take what I give them with no talk back. Give me a chance to build trust

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22 y/o      Clermont, Quebec

I want a male submissive for any perver experiences

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  United States

I want a boytoy who can keep my interest. Here is your test.. To the world- I have a vanilla life with an office job surrounded by men- I’ve had this fantastic of logging into the site at work and reading the most naughtiest fantasies. One after an other. I want to feel my panties get wetter and wetter at my desk.
Here the rest- Message me tell me what you want me to do to you/ what you want to do to me/ whatever you think is interesting and gets me hot enough to want more. Good luck ??

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  California

Seeking a submissive bitch boy who loves a good pegging .

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  Belleville, Illinois

Are you a sub. male looking to be owned. When you message me tell me how long you have been a sub. What you are into. .

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52 y/o      England

I need a regular and reliable submissive man for garden duties who drives and is willing & able to drive to occasional Events for BDSM playtime.
Lives Havering, Essex, UK
Events in Kent once a month.
FemDom munches North London and Blackfriars occasionally.
London FenDom club every 2 months.

Initially a chat here on cage, then aSkype chat to verify we are both real and mutually compatible.
IF all goes well coffee meet then I decide from there.

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  Indianapolis, Indiana

I am a very strict Dom and I want my sub to always listen closely for things aren’t always as they seem. I need you to be open minded to the things I ask of you and know that what I’m telling you is right. I am willing to take on new comers with limited limitations I have no problem teaching you my ways. All I ask is you be honest with me I’m not here to financially care for anyone. Respect my rules and we’ll have the time of your life.

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53 y/o      Seattle, Washington

Before I even meet someone who is local to Seattle, I get asked what I will do with them. I am a literal-minded person and I honestly don't know: each person, and each dynamic is different. Do you have a chastity device? I'd love to talk to you about that, while you're wearing it. How do you feel about being touched on the first meeting, in public? On which parts of you, and how firmly? Do you mind being called 'boy'? Being called 'cute'? Most importantly, what if I do it anyway?

Regarding chat, I'm up for email here and eventually a G-PG rated Zoom during the pandemic. (Normally I'd say, "If you'd like to meet to chat, I'm up for a G-PG rated beverage and a walk while playing Pokémon Go. Don’t play? If you want to please me you’ll get the app and choose Team Instinct before we meet.”) I’m fully vaccinated, but now the Delta variant is an issue so … back to Zoom.

I would love to talk to a local man who is available for a relationship and willing to wear a secured chastity device.

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47 y/o      New York, New York

If you are a sub who thinks his Domme should be able to use him for sexual pleasure (of the intercourse kind), and are strong enough to have your orgasms (or the lack thereof!) managed down to the millisecond, then you’re the sub for me. Seeking a SINGLE, otherwise “Alpha-seeming” submissive gentlemen, clean-shaven, preferably professional and Caucasian, ages 40-55, for a hybrid kinky-vanilla LTR of the FLR variety. I’ve had a lot of practice and experiences in the last 5 years, and would love to only be spending time on these sites finding guys to entertain me in my spare time, while being fully satisfied by my #1 Alpha Sex Toy Boyfriend (pursuant to Owned Property). If interested, read my whole profile and check the instructions in the final pic. Look forward to forging into total weirdness with you soon! ?

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33 y/o      Lisbon, Lisbon

I like rock and metal, books, videogames podcasts, I am a progressive, I'm vegan and love to dance to old music.
I am looking for something meaningful. For the right person I am willing to relocate.

If you believe we are similar yet you are on the total opposite of me when it comes to BDSM and you like to be bossed around in and out of the bedroom, I invite you to read my profile.

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  Washington, District of Columbia

Hi, I'm looking for a subby male that I can play with online. I love edging, chastity and making guys beg to come. If you're interested, send me a message and we can chat to see if we're compatible.

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  United Kingdom

Looking for a lifestyle control arrangement, love to have a man who is aroused by feet. My domination style is to control daily life tasks and give punishments when disobeyed. I will reward you for doing well too. Check my profile for more info

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  Austin, Texas

I am seeking a local submissive male . Someone who adores me and will serve me to my liking . Local is the key word.. Round Rock area ..

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39 y/o      New Jersey

I am intrigued by the physiological and emotional effects of extreme arousal and orgasm denial on the male. I am seeking an unattached male for an in depth, immersive experience of exploring the boundaries of arousal. Exploration will include submitting to prolonged daily sessions of cock teasing while secured in bondage. I am very skilled at discovering and exploiting arousal triggers in men and am also an expert in orgasm control and denial. Sessions may last from 2 to 7 hours. While not in session, you will be locked in a custom fitted chastity device that I will provide.
My preferences:
- Must be heterosexual male.
- Age 23 and up. Younger men preferred.
- Able to be available daily for in-person arousal sessions.
- Able to wear chastity device at all times while not in session.

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  New Zealand

Hello all looking for that special sub who enjoys being owned with trust communication and lots of play message me if you ready

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19 y/o      Kingston, New York

I’m Mistress Kieran or Miss K and I am a non-sexual (asexual) dominant female, and I’m looking for an obedient submissive to devote themselves to me and my discipline for a long, loving relationship. I’m 5’5, and my weight is none of your business, I work and go to college so my time is limited but I am dedicated. Don’t be shy, message me little lambs.

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29 y/o      South Africa

Hello there. I am a fun loving sadistic Goddess. Looking for someone who wants all the pain I have to give. If you're interested send me a message and like the title says IMPRESS ME.

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  Michigan

I am currently accepting applications for a new submissive. Be sure to read my profile in its entirety before sending me a message. Low effort messages will be promptly ignored, seek to impress me, and if your efforts are clear I will always minimally provide a response. I am an experienced Femdom, I am what your wish for in your wildest dreams. You need to prove to me that you are willing to put in the effort required to be worthy of my time. ((For all you pretty boys sending me pictures thinking that's going to cut it, I am married and I am not looking for a lover, I don't give a rat's ass what you look like, I want a dedicated submissive.)

P.S I should not have to remind anyone of this, but since so many fail at this in their opener my honorific is Mistress, address me as such.

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45 y/o      New York

Your dream starts once you contact me. I am sweet natured and I will put you at ease upon my arrival.

I look forward to meeting you.

PLEASE MESSAGE AGE NAME, PHOTO AND LOCATION.

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29 y/o      Russell, Kansas

Yes I am transgender but I am not medically started transitioning yet as I want to have kids I am not to sure exactly what I am seeking in a relationship as my eyes have been opened up with past experiences and would love to explore other kinks but message me if interested and ask any questions as I am an open book males need not message me unless there is a female dominant as well I have been hurt to many times by men and there fore will never go back to just men

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  United States

I'm a 20 year old switch (don't get too excited, you will only experience my dominant side) looking for chastity keys to hold. I expect you to understand your place serving me, pleasing me, and being humiliated by me.
I may ask you to stay in chastity for extended periods of time, and I won't always have time for you because I travel, but I will always respect your limits.

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  Mission Viejo, California

Hello, I'm semi-new to the BDSM scene. I'm mostly into pet-play but of the anime variety. I'm not really into severely punishing my sub, I just really want a sub who will worship me everyday, adore me, give me praises, tell me he loves me, and let me give them gifts. I can get rougher if needed, but really not into brats. I just want something that will be with me long term as I am very demi-sexual. I'm mostly looking for something online and if local, we can talk about hanging out.

Catboy stuff, lingerie, anything pretty girl on him is nice. I just really like the ears and tail concept.

I'm a big anime and video game person, so I prefer to get along on those levels. I don't like my subs having no sense of the arts.

I am currently married, but my spouse has allowed me to have a sub/pet I can have. My last stub can no longer be my sub and he set my expectation pretty high.

My favorite types are twinks. I really love thinner body types and love to be called master.

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64 y/o      Panama

Are you ready to finally surrender fully to your longtime submissive yearnings to serve a powerful FEMDOM?

Then, here is your rare opportunity for a permanent and fulltime live-in domestic servant and personal caretaker position. Will train with a strict disciplinary style to my precise likings.

Maybe you know you are a submissive slave type but have held back because life happened, but you are now ready to finally be freed with the right Owner.

Having some domestic and personal skills is a real bonus--handyman, geek, chef, masseuse, housekeeper, chauffeur, gardener, name your talent...

Must be stable and work remotely, already be retired, or have appropriate means to relocate and provide for your keep. No working outside the home. Age doesn't matter if you otherwise qualify.

No kids or other distractions from back home. Now is the time to focus on your new slave existence and duties.

If you know you are a submissive with a slave heart and are ready to relocate and surrender to obedience training in a 24/7/365 position in a tropical paradise, you need to respond and convince me that you are the one for this position.

See profile for complete details.

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  Birmingham, England

I need a regular and reliable submissive man for home and garden duties

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  Croatia

Couple seeking slave online
Mistress and master seeking hlty good looking slave who know what he or she looking for and who willing to give body and mind to new oweners.We need only real slave so dont bother us if you are just horny you need to be able do day task not having to much limits or problem to reward owener also we dont read messages if you dont put your kinks limits pic and why you think you can be oure perfect slave.If you finde yourself in this feel free to contact us oh and if you have hangout send your id.

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  Toronto, Ontario

Looking for a new toy to train and do as I say

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66 y/o      Fort Lauderdale, Florida

right now I m in nashville tn seeking a submissive husband between the ages of 60 -90

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65 y/o      Michigan

My dream is to become the owner/wife of a submissive man. I am both loving and strict. Must be ages between 50 and 62. Check out my profile.

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44 y/o      Georgia

I am seeking a chore slave. Though I have several kinks and fetishes, because of the waves of liars and time-wasters, for now I want only a chore slave. I have no use for a closet slave. If you are married, I am not interested in you at all, unless your significant other is aware that you are a sub/slave and you serve. If you lie to them, you would lie to me, I loathe liars and find you a waste of space. Thief? I follow middle eastern law with thieves and blackmailers have horrible things that happen to them. If you are new to the scene, that’s fine. But have a clue what D/s means.

 

I only want a chore slave. It may grow to more(as in kink, not a relationship), and you can hold your breathe, you may or may not get disappointed. I don’t want anything more than a chore slave. I am ridiculously picky when it comes to a mate and can pretty much guarantee you  aren’t what I am looking for.

And yes, I have over 20 years in the scene.  And no, I won’t pay a slave for anything, ever. This includes him trying to move in and me covering his expenses or a freaking plane ticket! Not moving here, not cleaning, not cooking, not trying to live with me free of charge, not him eating my food, not him trying to do anything that cost me money. Sex? You’re a slave. You’re beneath me. Alpha slave hoping for sex? Again, I doubt you meet all my requirements… but keep holding you’re breath. It makes me laugh.

Basically, I seek a true slave that understands, it’s what makes the Domme happy. If he lives to please, that’s my man. Notice I say, ‘man’? I don’t like females. Sissy? Maybe. The last one had no idea what it means to be an actual sub. Kind of burned me against them. But hey, I might try again. Strange and bizarre? We would likely get along. Crazy? Let’s face it, everyone in this world is nuts from one degree or another. But if you do that extreme hot and cold or freak out modes, you need to move on. I’m not interested. Age doesn’t really matter. Sexuality doesn’t really matter. But for the record, heteroflexible, pan, bi, and questioning have a better chance of more with me. Questions? Bring it. I allow them and don’t mind them.

 

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  Toronto, Ontario

This is a full figured Dominat Black female looking for a longterm sub that will be loyal and obedient to all of her needs! I need a sub that is in Toronto serious inquiries only.

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  Tacoma, Washington

Hello. I'm technically a switch but I'm looking for a sub male to satisfy my dom side. Full disclosure, I already have a partner who satisfies my sub side and he's very aware of this account. It's not a secret to him at all, so there won't be any sneaking around. Alright, now that that's out of the way...

I'm looking for a male sub, preferably one in WA state or the west coast. I'm fine with starting online but the end goal is to move into real life. If I collar any sub male, it would be with the understanding that anything we had would be a friends with benefits situation. This is not to say I'd have no interest in getting to know you. Actually, I'd prefer a friendly relationship and I prefer getting to know my subs before taking any next steps. What I'm simply saying is we'd be friends, we'd share bdsm but that would be the limit.

You can read more on my profile but I'll provide a brief summary of me and bdsm here.

I consider myself a newbie because I've been and out of the lifestyle. I'm interested in male subs who enjoy body worship, facesitting, pegging, service (cooking, cleaning, massages, etc) and prefer a stern mistress over a cruel one. I'm not really one for yelling and don't enjoy brats. When I say something, just do it and that's it. I'm not fighting you on stuff. I'll simply leave. Thanks.

Lastly, please check out my profile before responding to see how compatible we are.

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  United Kingdom

I’m looking for a sissy or submissive male to do as I say . There is 2 tasks u must do before I take u on board . Message me if you are interested ...

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  Sweden

I’m looking for a steady submissive   man who is ideally between 35 and 45 years old, 
who enjoys tease and denial - ideally chastity, being of domestic and body  service, sensual and sexual domination. 
This Ebony Goddess is slightly older than 45, a business professional, well travelled and sophisticated.
You should be Single, Tall, an Alpha male in public  "Very submissive behind closed doors´´
I'm willing to consider men slightly younger than 35 but not much younger. Ultimately I would like a FLR, 
therefore you should not be attached to  anyone, married or being forced to hide our relationship and sneak  around.
Basically, I seek a true sub/slave that knows his place. If new it is o.k as long as you are ready to trained.

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  Canada

There will be tasks and chores assigned. Eventually online and in-person; impact, orgasm control, chastity, CBT, sexual services, degradation, and humiliation. S-S-C.

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  Ho Chi Minh City, Ho Chi Minh City

Hello,

I am an young and attractive Vietnamese lady, nature dom, looking for a submissive husband. I am interested in being a switch as well, but most of the time i am a dom. Bonus point if you’re bi or wish to be a cuckold or poly relationship. I don’t want a sissy partner. Please only apply if you’re relatively fit and have a good size penis! Because I do have a high sex drive and very kinky.

However, I am interested in a serious long term relationship only. No need to apply if you’re not single.

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35 y/o      New York

PLEASE READ ALL
I’m a curvy black fem and a fairly new dom seeking a tall sexy white experienced sub to practice with.

Yes I’m married, and he is fully aware and is ok with my exploring Just need someone that fully enjoys the lifestyle. We can form a possible friendship. I can get practice and maybe open to getting content (masked of course) . Check out my profile for Favs/must haves and hard limits

English, Australian, Irish, and Scottish accents get my attention along with blue or green eyes

-MUST be a white male
-MUST have either muscular, average, athletic or toned body
-MUST be at least 5’11 and up
-MUST be 30-55 years old (look good for you age)
-MUST be experienced, NO Newbies
-MUST be able to host
-MUST have proper hygiene
-MUST be Drama/COVID/STD/HIV/AIDS FREE
-No catfishing or internet games
-Serious inquires and meeting let’s not waste each other’s time

Must treat me with the utmost respect and always make me feel safe.

Please have patience don’t reach out to me numerous times.

Please say “SUB” in initial message so I know you fully read my ad or your message will more than likely be ignored.

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  Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

Submissive male I love to Be in control of you I’m down for anything please contact me

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19 y/o      San Antonio, Texas

I am a dominant female looking for a submissive male to worship me and treat me as the queen I am.

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  Mitchell, Georgia

Looking for a older male that don’t mind to be my slave. Whatever I say goes.
No blood
Nothing that will harm me or you. Just hold clean pleasing me and then you can even get a nice happy ending

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  South Africa

Hello there.

I’m a young dominant woman looking for a submissive or slave to call my own, to please my needs and be rewarded if they were good, if they displeased me - they will be punished, no exceptions.

I’m a firm domme, you follow my rules and orders and I will reward you. You disobey me and you will be punished.

A bit about me as a domme:

- I don’t care what gender or sexuality you are, if we have a connection that doesn’t matter to me.
- I might be firm with my rules and orders, but I am still understanding. If you are my submissive I will care for you, listen to your troubles and be there for you.
- I strive to never be unfair or unjust towards my submissives and my decisions regarding them.
- I will do everything in my power as your Domme to put you at ease and to help you be the best version of yourself.


I love denying my submissives orgasms, tying them up and marking them. (not permanently, mostly hickeys— I love showing everyone what is mine.) I love to overstimulate my submissives sometimes. I love using gags, restraints, blindfolds and toys on my submissives. — of course, i love doing much more than just this, this is only to name a few.

I love impact play and sensual play— and many more.

I’m currently just looking for an online/LDR submissive or slave, as I’m a busy woman. But with the potential of meeting up when we both feel comfortable and feel a connection.

There is more to say, but the rest I’ll leave for those truly interested in getting to know me.

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32 y/o      United Kingdom

As it says, I'm looking for anyone who is genuinely interested in a total power exchange dynamic. Please be aware trust and communication is key, and a relationship will be built up over time with someone who suits my needs and who I can interact with on a vanilla level too. Please don't contact me if you don't feel you can be committed. I do like younger submissives but age isn't important for the right person.

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  Washington, District of Columbia

I’m a young, beautiful, hot Domme looking for slave. Read my profile and see if you enjoy it!

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  London, England

Message me and tell me what you can do for me ;)

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30 y/o      Ontario

I am seeking a SERIOUS BDSM/FLR/LongTerm/Lifetime Relationship. Willing to start online, AS LONG AS YOU'RE WILLING TO DO THE WORK, then ILR/Domestic Servitude. Age Rage 25-35. See my Profile and Message me for more information

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29 y/o      Fort Worth, Texas

Looking for something that starts online and eventally becomes real.

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  England

Sub wanted

I am a domme who likes to educate my subs holistically, I am looking for an attractive female sub to complete my harem - one other female and 2 males. One of which I may train to switch. Not looking for online or those with a half-arsed approach. My fucktoy's behave well and are rewarded accordingly. I'm attractive and articulate enough to make your pussy tingle for me via text and in real life. You will be clean and presentable and want to make the best of your body, mind and soul, if you apply. I will want to know your needs and kinks, if you don't know, then I aren't interested. Bondage, whips, etc are acceptable; I don't do knives or permanent scars and scat, so don't ask Look forward to hearing from the clever lovely fucktoy's out there. Get in touch, I won't bite unless you like it. Goddess x

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  Ramstein-Miesenbach, Rhineland-Palatinate

I will change your life for the better or worse......your actions will determine your fate, of course. I require obedience 24/7 and IN PERSON (in Germany).
I will not dominate online or via video calls!!!!
Training you will require at least one weekend a month in person and constant contact otherwise.

My Deutsch is pathetic. Do not worry if your English is not perfect. Eventually, we will communicate effectively.

My prior full time sub's experience was life changing and your's could be too.

DO NOT send dick pics or you will be deleted immediately.

You will address me as Mistress and speak with respect.

See my profile for my hard limits and more information about me.

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  St. Catharines, Ontario

Curvy-Fit Attractive Lady looking for a quiet sweet Gentleman that needs to be Done.

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  Ho Chi Minh City, Ho Chi Minh City

I am interested in a serious relationship with a submissive man. If that's you and you wish for a cuckold relationship, message me

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54 y/o      Payette, Idaho

The Lady Sasori is seeking 24/7/365 slaves for Her and Her households. My Lady calls this slave "tia", and has place this slave in charge of slave recruitment applications. Due to bad internet at My Ladies location She has instructed this slave to check for responses every Monday.
Lady Sasori seeks only those who understand who and what a slave is, and the service that required of any slave. Please make sure this is the life you want, and that serving Lady Sasori means Her wants and desires are important, NOT yours. If this is an issue, please feel free to continue onto the next profile.
Should you continue you on it will be understood that you understand and agree to all conditions.

Requirements are as follows:
Must be a US resident,
Learn, follow and remember protocols,
Natural born male or female, My lady at this time can not take trans, or cross dressers.
video chat with the Lady Owl - Lady Sasori's daughter,
fill out application - a background check is a must.

Things that will get you dismissed and/or blocked:
Being disrespectful,
Trying to talk or discuss anything sexual,
What will happen if your good or bad,
anything of these will only be discussed with signed and owned property, and no one else.
An application must be filled out and returned within 7 days from being sent, failure to do so applicant must reapply.
A video chat by Skype must be done when the Lady Owl sets, 1 reschedule may be done otherwise recruit must reapply.
after two attempts to complete application and video chat becomes unsuccessful recruit must wait 6 months to reapply.
For more information if interested, contact me and I will follow up every Monday.

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32 y/o      United States

About me.. im a mistress who has been in the role for a while. Currently just started being active again. I’m looking for a pet In the nyc area, to learn and grow together . Remember patience is the key to growth.

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34 y/o      England

Looking for submissive male to train initally online with view to meeting possible long term relationship for right sub.

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33 y/o      New Orleans, Louisiana

I LOVE to dominate a fit, sexually attractive man who will do as I say without question. My main kink is Edging as I absolutely LOVE to have control on when and how you come. I’m a giving person as I will reward you with video and images of my beautiful body. I am looking for online only to start. Kik, or whatever works for you.

Please, if you contact me, YOU MUST BE
-Fit
-between the ages of 18-35
-have a nice member for me to enjoy
- LOVES to be told what to do without question.

I’m not looking for financial or domestic control. If we hit it off, things may change!

If you are at all interested in me, Miss Mercury, please send a message with a photo.

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  New York

Ive been top for over 35 years. Inside is a sub that men can't seem to satisfy. I really am not into directing as a bottom. Prefer very experienced, mature gentleman.

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