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ISO Sub Male in S. Cali
Looking for a submissive male to see several times a month,, or as I beckon him.
NOT looking for any live-in situations that would overtake either of our lives.
NOT looking for a switch.
Open to a male between the ages of 22 - 50. Must be fit/in-shape, attractive, intelligent, and have a stable career/life.
You need not be experienced but you at least must be smart, intuitive, and easily teachable.
I would like us to chat (for a reasonable amount of time, NOT indefinitely) and develop an initial degree of respect and trust before meeting. To be clear, our first meeting will not be a sexual encounter. This will give us a chance to decide if there is chemistry.
You must live in either San Diego or Los Angeles area so that it would be convenient for us to see each other at least a few times per month.
Please be courteous in your first message. Any introduction that starts with “Hey” will be automatically deleted. Do not send me nude photos unless I request them.
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Seeking Older Slave for LTR
Mistress seeking experienced submissive becoming a slave and ready to serve.
USA men
Age 45 or older
Citizen or Naturalists
Speaks fluent English
LTR-TPE Contract
Financially stable
Understand and accepts the enjoyment of being collared and Chasity
Must be able to relocate to here

Disciplines include:
Handyman/contractor a must!
Enjoys being sent out on an assignment(s)
Computer and software skills
Writing and editing skills
Domestic and shopping services
Preparing meals and grilling
Landscaping and maintaining yard
Assist with input for executive decision making
Intimacy services
Personal attendant
Enjoys serving, laughter, and enjoys private conversation

Refer to me as Madam or Ma’am.
Attach a clear face photo and a full length in a suit or professional casual.
Send a one-page memo giving a brief statement(s) of current work profession, little about current family, current obligations, what are you seeking in this next relationship, why do you feel you would be a good candidate, your thoughts on appeasing me and your personal goals that you wish to achieve?

Closing: Thank you for taking time to read this ad, best wishes in finding a Mistress.
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WHAT I’M SEEKING Part 1 or 2 :
This aspect of my profile, is so crucial to be read and very much understood. I want the slaves/subs who read this to be clear that they’re capable of embodying what it is I’m seeking. If you are unsure, or know you can’t fulfill my needs, please refrain from wasting my time as I don’t appreciate games. If you’re a serious candidate, and you feel you are exactly what I want then feel free to forward me a message. You’ll be expected to do the following when writing to myself.
1.) You’ll greet me by referring to myself as Ms. Carmen in the initial first message. All other messages/correspondences you may refer to me as Maam, Miss, Ms, Mistress. Always emphasize the M as a form of respect for your Dominant.
2.) You’ll attach a clear face photo, nothing nude unless requested by myself.
3.) You’ll send a detailed message, explaining who you are, why you feel you’d be a great candidate, and what your goals to appease me, limits ect.

WHAT I’M SEEKING Part 2 of 2 :
The following is the set requirements you’d need to fulfill prior to messaging me.
1.) Canada/U.S MEN ONLY
2.) 20-45 Years Old ( On the rarest of occasions I will accept an older slave )
3.) Caucasian Only
4.) Must speak fluent English
1.) Cum Swallowing
2.) Piss Drinking
3.) Orgasm Denial ( Denial Journal will be also included via email daily )
4.) Edging
5.) Essays/Tasks ( depending on what I’m in the mood for )
6.) Must be willing to either own toys or purchase toys such as dildo/anal beads
Anything else I require will be brought up within correspondences.
YOU MUST OWN A WEBCAM/MIC as you’ll be required to perform tasks either in video or picture format. You will willingly offer DAILY to complete any requests.
I’m currently using KIK/Hangouts and I will be establishing an email address for slaves to submit to me email correspondences/tasks ect.
Thank You for taking time to read my profile, I hope to hear from you, if not all the best with finding your Dominant counterpart.
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Black BBW Domme in Seattle seeks submissive James Evans
I’m looking for a steady submissive Seattle man who is ideally between 42 and 56 years old, who enjoys tease and denial - ideally chastity, being of domestic and body service, sensual and sexual domination; has a masochistic streak, and a car. More information on my specific kink interests are in my profile.

I'm willing to consider men slightly younger than 42. Ultimately I would like a female led relationship with particularly compatible candidates. Race, height, and weight not an issue: respect and attitude is.

In return, I can offer cuddles, doting, sex play (if not release), a fair number of toys to taunt you with, and free or reduced-price entry into many CSPC events during dates - hence the need for a car.
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Looking for male sub in NEPA Area
Very horny, aggressive dominatrix looking for male sub for sex play. I prefer younger men who are into bdsm, restraints, orgasm control/edging, pegging and dildo penetration
You will wear a locked cock cage
(My way of dominating varies depending on the subs personality). Sometimes I can b mommy and caring as well as forceful. Sometimes I’m straight on hardcore. The dynamics of our play will b discussed prior to sexual activity. (No scat or blood play)
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Hello potential Gentlemen, Submissive or Switch Gentlemen
Greetings Gentlemen
I hope all is well mentally, physically and spiritually with you. Anyway I am interested in an Submissive or Switch type of Gentleman who is located in California. I prefer the Bay area if possible unless you are willing to travel to me. Btw I am seeking friendship first(I AM NOT INTERESTED IN FLESHY WAYS OR FETISHES in the beginning).I must have connection with your soul first. I understand this is "The Cage" but I love myself too much to be doing hookups with random people. Not my style and never will be. No judgement to others but this is my post and my wants. Besides I don't like to share or engage in anything that will be temporary ?. Also I will no longer respond to messages who obviously did not read my profile. If you have a problem with what I said above OR on my profile ...keep it moving darling and I wish you the best still.---> So to the serious GENTLEMEN who have no problem being Submissive or Switch or just a gentleman with no are always welcome to contact me. ***Once AGAIN PLEASE READ MY PROFILE FIRST BEFORE CONTACTING ME!!!** Anyway enjoy your day and best of luck to everyone on here.
Much Respect and Soul Power to all?
SOUL Goddess?
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Dominant Woman looking for Submissive.
Hello there.

I’m a young dominant woman looking for a submissive or slave to call my own, to please my needs and be rewarded if they were good, if they displeased me - they will be punished, no exceptions.

I’m a firm domme, you follow my rules and orders and I will reward you. You disobey me and you will be punished.

A bit about me as a domme:

- I don’t care what gender or sexuality you are, if we have a connection that doesn’t matter to me.
- I might be firm with my rules and orders, but I am still understanding. If you are my submissive I will care for you, listen to your troubles and be there for you.
- I strive to never be unfair or unjust towards my submissives and my decisions regarding them.
- I will do everything in my power as your Domme to put you at ease and to help you be the best version of yourself.

I love denying my submissives orgasms, tying them up and marking them. (not permanently, mostly hickeys— I love showing everyone what is mine.) I love to overstimulate my submissives sometimes. I love using gags, restraints, blindfolds and toys on my submissives. — of course, i love doing much more than just this, this is only to name a few.

I love impact play and sensual play— and many more.

I’m currently just looking for an online/LDR submissive or slave, as I’m a busy woman. But with the potential of meeting up when we both feel comfortable and feel a connection.

There is more to say, but the rest I’ll leave for those truly interested in getting to know me.
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True Lifestyle Mistress ISO slave LTR masos welcome.. FLORIDA
I am a vetted Attractive Domme in the lifestyle for 27 years in Florida
I am offering a collar, training, scene time. time out at clubs. with My rope family. you Will start off i your own apartment( you rent it yourself no free rides) after you are trained sufficiently.. and can prove to Me that you are worthy of the collar and tag given to you... then I may let you live in...
Since I am engaged you Will not have intercourse with Me. or anyone. consider yourself in chastity or on a regime there of chastity cage and milking..
Please refer to my profile or ask Questions to clarify anything that you wish to know..
I enjoy impact play and rope.. although i am vetted in most aspects of BDSM heavy on the S/M :>
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Looking for a hot fully bi male for...
We're looking for a very hot bi male single preferred looking for a Primal Dominant couple
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Be my bitch
I’m looking for a submissive man to come worship me, I joy mind control and pegging until he’s learned his lesson.
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dom female looking for sub man
looking for a young submissive guy (age 18-25) to treat as my dolly. its been my biggest fantasy to have a cute gothic boy who will let me use him. must be okay wearing womans clothing (dresses, lingerie, etc.)
contact me for more info
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Bossy Marxist Domme Seeks Agreeable Sub
-I decide what/how much you eat
-I decide when you eat
-I decide what you wear
-I decide what you do with your hair
-I decide your monthly budget
-I decide when u jerk off and what you jerk off to.
-I decide what Marxist literature you read in your spare time (and yes it will always be Marxist)

You don't have to be cute or young, just be obedient.

Hit my DMs ?
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Lifestyle Domme female northeast usa looking for real life sub/ slaves
Preference for cute guys 18-55
Would love to find a 247 tpe live in partner but open to play
Open to strictly d/s or romantic
Preference for asian/latino men
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Russian Goddess Princess needs a submissive sub
i am a true femme fatale and wicked enchantress, i am the girl you fantasize about but could never have and now i might allow you to crawl to my feet , the cruel attention you will receive from me will give you the most exhilaration experience of your life. I am looking for a new toy to mold and explore with. Right now I'm looking for a sub who will go through the rigorous training . i'm looking for a sub to use , love and train. i am a very sweet lady when you get to know me. but behind closed doors i'm an animal who likes being in control.. Can host and travel
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Dominant woman looking for Her submissive guy/ husband
I would love to look for my submissive husband guy/ husband/ boyfriend/ friend
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Maryland based. Looking for a sub male. Dipped my toes in a few years with an ex. He was a sub that brought out the true pegging dom out of me :) Looking for someone who wants a long term partnership.
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Maam looking for a good boy
52yr old dom seeking trained sub. Cum to me to enjoy the life you've chosen.
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Seeking subservience
I am looking for an experienced sub or slave. I have no desire to train anyone further. You must come to me ready to serve. You must have your own toys and space for sessions, as I may not always be able to host due to the nature of the area in which I live.
You must message me for more information if you think you are interested and worthy.
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Fun female dom looking for a obedient MALE sub
Strictly Online
I expect HONESTY at all times
I will NOT give out my number UNITIL i decide you have earned it and we have known each other for months Messaging will be done on KIK.
Your COMPLETE devotion to me is expected
I will DEMAND your time and attention
If you are not prepared to text me whenever I message you then i am not for you
I expect you to talk to me and be there for me AND I will do the same
I expect you to follow my instructions
LIMITS will be discussed before we start anything
Send a pic with your message if you are interested ( face or chest is fine)
Feel free to be creative with the picture you send

DO NOT keep me waiting, a fun and thrilling adventure awaits you!
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34F Looking for Femboy In Md
I am looking for a white older femboy for a female lead relationship. I am an experienced Domme living on the md area. If your serious hit me up
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