How to help spinning sub

Give her things to do and keep her mind on something other than her thoughts. If you have a yard get her into gardening and have her do research on what to plant and how. Just give it enough thought a ...

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:53 am • 21 Replies • 1718 Views

Is Height a Fetish for you?

I have been with tall short and in-between. I do have a fetish for women under 5' but I have found it is what is inside her mind that does it for me.

Sat Jan 11, 2025 6:29 am • 32 Replies • 3928 Views

Is shibari a dying art ?

My condolences to have someone for so long is a great honor. You served her well and brought much joy to her life. Think of her smile and know you served her well as you did yourself. No the art is st ...

Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:31 pm • 14 Replies • 1542 Views

Trust

I try to go by what I call the " shut up and listen method" at first. We get to know each other a little then when she is ready I shut up and listen to what happened to her to give her trust issues. I ...

Tue Jan 07, 2025 5:23 pm • 16 Replies • 1599 Views

Frustrated

I reached out to an old "friend" and had a talk about how he and a former friend of his shared his friends wife since whe was in the same bind you are. When the friend was on the road she would be sub ...

Thu Dec 26, 2024 4:11 am • 31 Replies • 3643 Views

Observation about getting over someone

It depends on the relationship and the person. I have always waited a few months or at timed even years. I don't go looking for someone I just let them enter my life and we go from there. Personally I ...

Wed Dec 11, 2024 9:55 am • 11 Replies • 1454 Views

Frustrated

I have been a Dom over 25 years now and I have seen this many times on both sides. I have seen two people who started out loving and needful of each other's needs and wants (me included). A few years ...

Wed Dec 11, 2024 9:42 am • 31 Replies • 3643 Views

What to wear

Short and skimpy is nice but there are times when it is not a good thing to wear. Something tight and slinky that shows curves but does not show off the goods. Mid thigh with a slit and in his favorit ...

Thu Dec 05, 2024 4:40 am • 10 Replies • 1293 Views

Got ghosted again

OkI am going to say it! The living is doing more ghosting than the dead and it needs to stop! People are putting spirits out of their jobs just because they are tp stupid to say "your not what I want" ...

Sun Dec 01, 2024 9:39 am • 11 Replies • 1539 Views

Jeeze

Why is it the older I get the dumber the young ones get? What ever happened to ,,.... not long term but for life. I see so many women that once they are married they start to build a getaway fund. You ...

Sat Nov 23, 2024 1:14 pm • 36 Replies • 4268 Views