Do nice guys finish last even in kink??

Yes because "nice guys" make everything awkward. Women don't want nice, they want real and "nice" is the furthest thing from authentic. Most "nice guys" are resentful too and no woman wants to be rese ...

Tue Jun 13, 2023 11:43 pm • 37 Replies • 3739 Views

Gay for a man to love being pegged?

Terrifying notion? There are men who're afraid to wipe their own ass in fear of it being gay. Being gay isn't the worst thing a man could be. But no that's not gay. Silly heteros. So scared that the g ...

Wed Apr 12, 2023 9:05 pm • 15 Replies • 2262 Views

Blow Jobs as punishment

I don't know why you think I was trying to silence you. I didn't think what you wrote was wrong. I was simply stating what I thought OP meant by it and thought that she could clear that up if she want ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 11:48 pm • 23 Replies • 10372 Views

Blow Jobs as punishment

I could be wrong but I think she's meaning that those would be real punishments for her rather than the bj. I don't think she's meaning that he uses those methods against her. But only she can answer ...

Fri Sep 17, 2021 9:39 pm • 23 Replies • 10372 Views

Questioned role

Some people are just more obsessed with perceived accuracy than they are with genuinity.

That doesn't make them bad people. (This girl who's questioning you on it isn't wrong for doing it) it just ...

Sat Sep 11, 2021 10:40 pm • 13 Replies • 3963 Views

Age does not equal maturity

Taramafor blocking someone who's blatantly disrespectful is not weak. Or if it is in some kind of way inside your mind it's still not wrong. We choose who we allow into our spaces because those people ...

Fri Sep 10, 2021 8:11 pm • 16 Replies • 2873 Views

Discussing Dominant Women personals

There's always going to be people looking to take advantage. Male or female, it doesn't matter.

The important thing is that you find yourself in a situation that you enjoy. So if a domme is demand ...

Sun Aug 01, 2021 6:07 am • 22 Replies • 6365 Views

Discussing Dominant Women personals

There's always going to be people looking to take advantage. Male or female, it doesn't matter. Bot

The important thing is to find yourself in a situation you like. If you know you're not wanting t ...

Sun Aug 01, 2021 5:44 am • 22 Replies • 6365 Views

My husband isn't a dom...

I understand this. But as much as you long for it, don't expect him to be something he's not. It's not fair and it'll make him feel bad about himself.

And as for what to do about it, that's a pers ...

Mon Jul 12, 2021 12:01 am • 39 Replies • 11314 Views

Am I crazy?

It sucks that she blocked you but it's her right to do so. She isn't your sub and doesn't owe you anything.

Now I'm not saying you did anything wrong but you did put her off. So to her (keyword he ...

Fri Apr 30, 2021 8:24 pm • 33 Replies • 8178 Views