when dominant men ONLY want 'inexperienced' subs

"Consent is a thing now."

Consent was always a thing.

Ever see the movie "Goldfinger" where James Bond rapes a lesbian till she's straight? Consent might always have been a thing but attitudes ...

Wed Sep 30, 2020 10:28 pm • 19 Replies • 7158 Views

Bonding(2019) - Netflix Original

I've watched almost three episodes and actually rather like it. The main characters are clearly young and blundering through their lives; none of the side characters come off as though they're suppos ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 7:33 am • 15 Replies • 9519 Views

Collars and your "dream" ceremony.

I like the idea of a collaring ceremony, but I'm the kind of boring person that thinks it should be up to the person I'm giving myself over to what the details should entail

I guess something re ...

Thu Apr 25, 2019 3:52 am • 19 Replies • 16344 Views

Collars

I personally take being collared very seriously, and it's a red flag to me if someone wants to jump to it. However, I think it's pretty silly to harkon back to a time when everyone took them seriously ...

Tue Apr 23, 2019 7:24 pm • 33 Replies • 19727 Views

Anyone know how i can subconsciously convince my wife to become my sub?

There's no way to "subconsciously" make your wife something she is not. Trying to do so would be unethical and abuse. The whole point of BDSM, which separates it from abuse, is that it's done with t ...

Tue Apr 23, 2019 1:07 am • 22 Replies • 15332 Views

Is it weird to have a wedgie fetish?

Unless you're killing, eating, or shitting (and that last one mainly because most find it too gross) on people no one I know would look down on you.

Was the people who made fun of you vanilla or wa ...

Fri Apr 19, 2019 8:38 pm • 10 Replies • 13611 Views

What are your fetishes?

Feeling used by someone I like for their desires is the only real fetish I have. The more intense and pushed around I feel the more I like it, but the details are just mild preference.

Thu Apr 18, 2019 10:25 pm • 75 Replies • 43619 Views

Too girliee

Most sites with small but random sample size are going to tend to skew heavy towards what has the biggest population (so Mdom/fsub). And by virtue of them skewing that way, they tend to push away oth ...

Thu Apr 18, 2019 2:36 pm • 5 Replies • 3179 Views

Looks

I don't care too much about looks, but health is a major concern for me. My first few relationships were with extremely unhealthy (very overweight and/or ignoring their diabetes), and I never again w ...

Mon Apr 15, 2019 9:48 pm • 49 Replies • 27399 Views

Clarification

Unless you like personally know the person, one person looking on behalf of another is a huge red flag to me. Chances are the girl doesn't exist and he figures people will be more receptive to "her" ...

Fri Apr 12, 2019 4:29 pm • 9 Replies • 2871 Views