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I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

I was once involved with a wonderful dominant who I was surprised to hear had initially been a submissive but quickly found his comfort in being a daddy dominant, which suited him very well.

I have ...

Tue May 12, 2026 5:13 pm • 16 Replies • 2198 Views

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A Cloud

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I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

“ I wouldn't feel like I was giving up control so much as just choosing to do what I was told; Westley-at-the-beginning-of-The-Princess-Bride energy.”
-JM

Yay, Princess Bride reference, and perfe ...

Mon May 11, 2026 10:45 pm • 16 Replies • 2198 Views

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A Cloud

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Lifestyle BDSM

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I feel like you need to be a sub before being a dom

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Thank you, doll maker.This is exactly the advice I wanted.

Funny enough, I just stumbled on a great website with nice wands and Ben-wa balls etc., including a medical-grade stainless steel wand li ...

Thu May 07, 2026 11:11 pm • 12 Replies • 5914 Views

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A Cloud

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Equipment & Toys

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Relactation

Thank you, irish.

It sounds like a big commitment and a loving thing to do. I imagine it will be painful going in to it and painful coming out of it.

I’ll complete a risk profile that consider ...

Thu May 07, 2026 2:01 pm • 8 Replies • 1015 Views

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A Cloud

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Fetish

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Relactation

Okay, thanks. I’m guessing it’s done regularly over a period of weeks/months. I’ll look into it in more detail.

Wed May 06, 2026 9:15 am • 8 Replies • 1015 Views

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A Cloud

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Fetish

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Relactation

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I’m just going to put this here rather than a new thread…

Quality dildo recommendations?

I know people like glass but I was also looking for something softer. I am looking for low irritant mate ...

Mon May 04, 2026 2:49 am • 12 Replies • 5914 Views

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A Cloud

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Equipment & Toys

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Must have toys

Relactation

Asking for a friend, lol….

I understand lactation can be induced and relactation is probably more likely. I was wondering if relactation can happen through stimulation alone, without hormone supple ...

Mon May 04, 2026 2:39 am • 8 Replies • 1015 Views

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A Cloud

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Fetish

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Relactation

How far would you be willing to travel for the one build in LTR Dynamic ?

The hopeless romantic in me says to the ends of the world.
The charming asshole in me who’s deeply rooted in reality says we got to be at work Monday the ends of the world must wait.
In a perfect w ...

Sat May 02, 2026 1:46 am • 34 Replies • 6601 Views

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A Cloud

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Generally Speaking

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How far would you be willing to travel for the one build in LTR Dynamic ?

Can You Truly Call Yourself Obedient

For me, the bond is the measure. If you are questioning ‘true submission’ and ‘true obedience’, you’re probably starting to compare yourself with others or questioning authenticity and understanding w ...

Fri May 01, 2026 8:30 pm • 20 Replies • 5100 Views

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A Cloud

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Femdom

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Can You Truly Call Yourself Obedient

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So much depends on what you are both in to and other factors like budget. The beautiful thing is the possibilities are endless. It helps to fill out a good kink list and figure out your most favoured ...

Wed Apr 29, 2026 6:35 am • 12 Replies • 5914 Views

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A Cloud

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Equipment & Toys

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