How to edge and milk using Lovense toys

Everything always comes back to communication!

The sub needs to be clear when he is close to orgasm and the dominant needs to be attentive to the body language to time the denial just right.

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Fri May 27, 2022 7:36 am • 5 Replies • 2137 Views

BDSM abroad

I wonder if the grass is always greener somewhere else? I'm a European, living in the UK, and it so often seems the Dom men I'm interested in are in the USA.
That's interesting; I guess certain f ...

Fri May 06, 2022 9:37 am • 2 Replies • 955 Views

BDSM abroad

Howdy everyone,

Currently on vacation, and while I'm having a good time, I'm with family so trying to find a little kinky fun is once again not really possible.

However, I would like to hear fr ...

Mon May 02, 2022 5:19 am • 2 Replies • 955 Views

Male sub insubordination

Critique is one thing - it's not a sub's place to critique why their Dominant should/shouldn't want something - only how it makes them feel. They should make an effort to express how they feel, but no ...

Thu Jun 17, 2021 1:20 pm • 9 Replies • 3659 Views

Separating Finance from play

Here's how it works.
Moreover, we

making a lot of assumptions about my behavior, as well as the behavior of other people around here. I don't appreciate that, nor do I appreciate being solicited ...

Thu Apr 01, 2021 2:32 am • 15 Replies • 3902 Views

Sissy Exposure pros and cons

The biggest con for anything involving "exposure" means making a lot of people not otherwise involved with your kink life extremely uncomfortable when they did not ask to feel that way.

Tue Mar 30, 2021 3:14 am • 1 Replies • 1663 Views

How/when to talk about the stay at home role?

I just realized I semi-necro-ed a two month old thread. I think LCL conveyed what I was trying to say, but with more detail and nuance. It looks like Shadows was trying to convey a dislike of sub's ...

Tue Mar 30, 2021 1:27 am • 13 Replies • 4996 Views

How/when to talk about the stay at home role?

A more detailed description of your situation would probably elicit more helpful advice. Specifically, how balanced would a stay-at-home/breadwinner dynamic be?
The following are rhetorical question ...

Tue Mar 30, 2021 1:01 am • 13 Replies • 4996 Views

Medical Diagnostic Pinwheel Exploration

I have heard about infection/general hygiene concerns using Whartenburg wheels, so just take care to have a clean environment and sterilize your toys before and afterward.

Fri Mar 26, 2021 1:25 am • 9 Replies • 2202 Views

Self Experimentation

Something as simple as abstaining from masturbation/orgasm and/or Pavlov conditioning yourself to erotically respond to certain stimuli/words.

Wed Mar 24, 2021 9:46 pm • 19 Replies • 7579 Views