New Dom's vs Experienced

I've also seen other scenarios, where an "Alpha Sub" was like the chief submissive, in a group of multiple submissive females, in a dynamic with one dominant male (like harem, poly, or kink house sc ...

Wed Jul 27, 2022 9:04 am • 58 Replies • 13443 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

No Master to me equate skill and commitment. I can see the difference between Dom and Master.

I think alpha sub is often misunderstood and equated with having a powerful role in the work environm ...

Wed Jul 27, 2022 4:25 am • 58 Replies • 13443 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

I don’t even think alpha is a thing. Alpha sub, alpha male. All have a sense of their own importance that’s rarely perceived by those around them.

I would actually disagree.

Self-important beha ...

Wed Jul 27, 2022 2:29 am • 58 Replies • 13443 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

Alpha male = toxic male.

Toxic masculinity is a massive issue in society, and leads to numerous issues in bdsm dynamics as well, and what it is, is not natural alpha dominance, the existence of whi ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 11:14 am • 58 Replies • 13443 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

I believe that there is a bit of a distinction between someone who is naturally Dominant, and someone who is simply trying to explore play in a dominant role.

Among those of us who are naturally Do ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 8:56 am • 58 Replies • 13443 Views

New Dom's vs Experienced

I am going to disagree with some of my esteemed brethren marginally. Although I concur that there are elements of the lifestyle that are inherently dangerous to life, limb and psyche (rope, fireplay, ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 7:47 am • 58 Replies • 13443 Views

Day Collars

I believe there are a few custom independent jewelry manufacturers making (luxury) day collars -- of the sort that I believe you have in mind.

Some have locking elements, some are made of gold, sil ...

Tue Jul 26, 2022 5:42 am • 2 Replies • 1337 Views

Divorce fodder?

I wanted to offer a few suggestions.

Firstly, the issue in this scenario is not anything criminal (most likely), but rather that it might be used to the opponent's advantage in the divorce or child ...

Thu Jul 29, 2021 10:19 am • 17 Replies • 5533 Views

New and needing advice!

You had my attention when you expressed the topic of a contract. lol. I might be able to help with this, as it tends to be a matter regarding which I have some background (in multiple capacities).
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Sat Jan 27, 2018 9:40 am • 21 Replies • 19015 Views