Why do you submit?

Maybe a different approach to looking at this is to whom I would submit to and then answer the question why. To simply say we have a need or want to submit the begs us to answer when any opportunity t ...

Sun May 12, 2019 6:50 am • 8 Replies • 3108 Views

I have some questions....

Be careful what you wish for. In (BDSM) the what of what we we do herein this day of age it is or should all be with consent. Even in CNC dynamics there is the understanding that at any time either si ...

Tue Apr 30, 2019 6:47 pm • 7 Replies • 4067 Views

Lack of Imagination

A game I play with myself is to think about what I wouldnt want and then come up with a but this would be nice type of list to start the thinking.
Read erotica. There are some pretty great writers h ...

Sun Apr 28, 2019 12:32 am • 10 Replies • 8097 Views

Question for both submissives and dominants about communication

For me personally (leaning s type) I approach and recieve new communication on equal ground. I dont know them and they sont know me. Equal.
Beyond a profile (if that) and a self described title I kn ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 5:32 am • 42 Replies • 24068 Views

New To BDSM [doubts]

There are many of us here for the same reason. To help others grow and in turn grow and evolve ourselves.
So what are you looking for ? Let's start the conversation.
To answer your first doubt. Ye ...

Fri Apr 26, 2019 4:01 am • 11 Replies • 7802 Views

Help

Honestly, it sounds like you need to talk to your Dominants. Without knowing more of what you feel you need forgiveness from the best advise we can give is for you to own (as it looks you're doing) it ...

Thu Apr 25, 2019 10:57 am • 11 Replies • 7537 Views

Your take of a Submissive????

"The Devil whispered in my ear "You're not strong enough to withstand the storm"
Today, I whispered in the Devil's ear " I am the the storm" "

Actually sitting here and reading this and thinking ...

Mon Dec 10, 2018 6:46 pm • 44 Replies • 22619 Views

Books on BDSM.

The marketplace series by Laura Antoniou

Wed May 30, 2018 9:30 pm • 16 Replies • 15115 Views

One for the submissives

For me, first it's the look. Not just any look but The Look. It's all in the eyes for me. Either it's there or its not.
Anything after that Look builds from there. The voice, touch, etc....the ment ...

Mon May 28, 2018 5:10 pm • 12 Replies • 8654 Views

Lots of questions not sure where to begin.

Pay everyone has covered reading so now what to do or understand all the different things you've read and how they apply to you, right?

I would suggest finding a good negotiations list. (Later on ...

Wed Apr 25, 2018 4:45 pm • 7 Replies • 6616 Views