Pro this Pro that

After a while you realize that a professional might satisfy your short-term urge to submit and be dominated. They might satisfy your need to experience your fetishes in real time. But it is a short ...

Mon May 06, 2024 1:55 am • 6 Replies • 97 Views

On losing a sub

I am sorry for your loss. I can't say that "I know how you feel" because I have never experienced a heartbreak after seven years like that. And it's only empty words anyway. I can only imagine the j ...

Sat May 04, 2024 3:47 am • 6 Replies • 265 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

I don't generally send messages on here to people at all, unless it is something specific to either a blog or a forum post, and more often than not it is easier to just respond to the post in question ...

Thu May 02, 2024 2:39 am • 12 Replies • 528 Views

Word Play: ABCs of Kink

P is for pegging.

Bend me over, violate me, make me your fuck toy, push it in deeper, make me moan, make me your submissive little B$%^&*H

Sat Apr 27, 2024 7:30 am • 24 Replies • 478 Views

Vanilla dating

I approach BDSM dating in the same way as I would approach vanilla dating: With a casual meet-up over coffee or drinks (if she's a drinker; some people I've dated are, shall we say, friends of Bill W ...

Mon Apr 22, 2024 3:12 am • 16 Replies • 630 Views

Vanilla dating

Well, I've been pretty much resigned to the vanilla dating pool. Mostly because, over the years since I realized I was a kinky, submissive male, I have found that the options for any kind of mutually ...

Sun Apr 21, 2024 2:41 am • 16 Replies • 630 Views

What do you like most about premium?

I am not a "Premium" member but the one bonus is the ability to spruce up your blog entries with pictures. I've been wanting to do so for a while. You can't post pics as a standard member.
(quick e ...

Thu Apr 18, 2024 3:43 am • 12 Replies • 447 Views

Celebrity kink crush

Wonder Woman. She can lasso me any time of day.

Wed Apr 17, 2024 2:31 am • 20 Replies • 468 Views

Form post not published?

I've seen them remove threads without explanation, and I've often wondered how they ran afoul of the forum guidelines.

Typically, if someone posts a personal ad (e.g. "I'm seeking a female dominant ...

Wed Apr 17, 2024 2:30 am • 2 Replies • 164 Views

Is mutual attraction necessary for you during CNC play? (thoughts on "forced" bisexuality

Yes, I would say (as a sub male) that my being attracted to my domme is a prerequisite for this kind of play.

So in the context of this topic, that being "forced bisexuality" play, I'm curious how ...

Wed Apr 10, 2024 2:40 am • 13 Replies • 620 Views