Lesson of the day

I agree with that sentiment. I would argue that my submissiveness is also a personality trait....however, when people talk about "Skills" or "Experience" they may mean a couple things. One of them i ...

Tue Mar 25, 2025 2:55 am • 3 Replies • 378 Views

How did you get started.

I suppose, then, on that note I was always submissive, but there were certainly a few experiences along the way that shaped me to be this way.

I was always raised to be attentive to other people' ...

Tue Mar 18, 2025 3:06 am • 17 Replies • 1553 Views

A vetting guide/questionnaire

These are ALL very valid questions for people to narrow down what they are seeking, and to avoid wasting time when you get into it and realize that you are both seeking very different things from the ...

Sat Mar 15, 2025 2:43 am • 2 Replies • 372 Views

Kinks: Into everything?

It is certainly a learning curve. A lot of people jump into it with tons of intense feelings- Sub frenzy you call it, but little knowledge or experience or even really knowing what they are seeking. ...

Thu Mar 06, 2025 3:48 am • 14 Replies • 1175 Views

Kinks: Into everything?

Everyone has limits. Problem is, some of them they just don't know it. With inexperienced people new to the lifestyle, they might not yet realize what those limits are. And it's up to them to disco ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:44 am • 14 Replies • 1175 Views

How did you get started.

What originally "Turned me on" to BDSM? It was watching a documentary about a dungeon in New York, staffed by professionals. Something about the way these super strong, confident, powerful (and HOT) ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:41 am • 17 Replies • 1553 Views

How did you get started.

That is a really amazing story and I am glad you were able to find what you were looking for, and quickly realized exactly what you DIDNT want and were able to get out of a really terrible situation. ...

Sun Mar 02, 2025 11:20 pm • 17 Replies • 1553 Views

Username! Stands For...?

I'll take a stab at it:

S for Submission.
T for TOTAL submission.
E for Empathy, because I want to understand what my partner is feeling, and satisfy their emotional needs.
E for Experience ...

Fri Feb 28, 2025 3:45 am • 9 Replies • 250 Views

Conversation Starters

My thoughts: If you are interested in connecting with a fellow Cage member, then build up your own presence on the site, and then follow them (though not obsessively of course.) If they have a blog, ...

Tue Feb 25, 2025 3:35 am • 9 Replies • 891 Views

One BDSM Activity

So many to choose from!
Being cock-caged and having my sexual releases exclusively and entirely under Her control... would be the ultimate, as it would lead to further obediance... and discipline. ...

Sat Feb 22, 2025 3:51 am • 26 Replies • 1799 Views