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Improving all aspects of Submission

I was a kid when "I melt with You" came out and that song still speaks to me- as a guy who seldom really vibes with slow jam type love ballads, it's probably the most moving and beautiful love song I' ...

Sat Jul 13, 2024 3:05 am • 7 Replies • 1945 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Improving all aspects of Submission

142

Not willing to compromise on

I would agree there would have to be SOME kind of physical attraction, though that does not mean She would necessarily have to be swimsuit-issue cover material. But after all, if I want to submit to ...

Fri Jun 28, 2024 3:05 am • 14 Replies • 3620 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Not willing to compromise on

143

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

I agree with you but I think part of the issue is that female dommes are in far more demand than male doms. For the simple reason that there are far, far fewer of them than there are male doms- and f ...

Wed Jun 26, 2024 2:52 am • 43 Replies • 16373 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

144

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

I think that is a fair point, and, speaking as a self-identified submissive, it is very easy for partners of either orientation to fall into this trap. Submissives tend to fall into the trap of focusi ...

Tue Jun 25, 2024 3:04 am • 43 Replies • 16373 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

145

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

Because women and men are different. Dealing with sub men seems like a shitty job that deserves payment to me, lol.

(sorry non-binary folks I love and respect you and I know it's a stereotype and ...

Thu Jun 20, 2024 3:54 am • 43 Replies • 16373 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

146

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

I don't think of it in terms of a turn-on or turn-off. I prefer experience in a dominant, simply because a more experienced dominant knows what they are doing, and I would feel safer being in a compr ...

Wed Jun 19, 2024 3:44 am • 26 Replies • 5483 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

147

What is your perfect day?

A hike up to a mountain lake on a hot summer day. A place I'd always wanted to take my special "someone," you know, that person you think and romantically fantasize about when they aren't there. Only ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 3:11 am • 8 Replies • 1278 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

What is your perfect day?

148

new purchases enthusiasm thread!

My newest purchase was... Vivianite!

It's just a beautiful piece of bling. Gorgeous, transparent, deep sea blue green stone, with a perfect angled shape to the crystal. I love it!
Who doesn' ...

Wed Jun 12, 2024 3:07 am • 1 Replies • 642 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

new purchases enthusiasm thread!

149

Adult Bookstores/Movie theatres/Arcade

(*...sigh....)

We have one adult themed book/video store here in my town but I've never been in there, honestly. Always felt kind of weird, especially since I'd be interested in BDSM porn and I di ...

Thu May 23, 2024 2:56 am • 15 Replies • 3704 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Adult Bookstores/Movie theatres/Arcade

150

Something you Enjoy, and something you Don't.

Something I enjoy....hmmm, many things. Where to start...I guess, instead of listing certain fetish activities I'll just say: Learning more, not only about my own sexuality, but about that of others ...

Fri May 17, 2024 2:49 am • 8 Replies • 1377 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

Something you Enjoy, and something you Don't.