Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

I think that is a fair point, and, speaking as a self-identified submissive, it is very easy for partners of either orientation to fall into this trap. Submissives tend to fall into the trap of focusi ...

Tue Jun 25, 2024 3:04 am • 43 Replies • 15571 Views

Subs: what are some bad habits of FemDoms?

Because women and men are different. Dealing with sub men seems like a shitty job that deserves payment to me, lol.

(sorry non-binary folks I love and respect you and I know it's a stereotype and ...

Thu Jun 20, 2024 3:54 am • 43 Replies • 15571 Views

Is Experience A Turn On or Turn Off For You?

I don't think of it in terms of a turn-on or turn-off. I prefer experience in a dominant, simply because a more experienced dominant knows what they are doing, and I would feel safer being in a compr ...

Wed Jun 19, 2024 3:44 am • 26 Replies • 5083 Views

What is your perfect day?

A hike up to a mountain lake on a hot summer day. A place I'd always wanted to take my special "someone," you know, that person you think and romantically fantasize about when they aren't there. Only ...

Fri Jun 14, 2024 3:11 am • 8 Replies • 1169 Views

new purchases enthusiasm thread!

My newest purchase was... Vivianite!

It's just a beautiful piece of bling. Gorgeous, transparent, deep sea blue green stone, with a perfect angled shape to the crystal. I love it!
Who doesn' ...

Wed Jun 12, 2024 3:07 am • 1 Replies • 570 Views

Adult Bookstores/Movie theatres/Arcade

(*...sigh....)

We have one adult themed book/video store here in my town but I've never been in there, honestly. Always felt kind of weird, especially since I'd be interested in BDSM porn and I di ...

Thu May 23, 2024 2:56 am • 15 Replies • 3381 Views

Something you Enjoy, and something you Don't.

Something I enjoy....hmmm, many things. Where to start...I guess, instead of listing certain fetish activities I'll just say: Learning more, not only about my own sexuality, but about that of others ...

Fri May 17, 2024 2:49 am • 8 Replies • 1235 Views

How long is too long?

It's been said many times but worth repeating:
Any time a potential date and/or partner asks for money before you have actually met them face to face... ...it is almost certain you will never meet t ...

Thu May 16, 2024 2:37 am • 20 Replies • 3415 Views

Alternative sites

I was VERY dissappointed with my experience on Alt. They lead you on, "It's totally free!" but then, after you sign up you find out you basically can't do anything- including (especially) message any ...

Tue May 14, 2024 2:46 am • 11 Replies • 3838 Views

How long is too long?

It's been said many times but worth repeating:
Any time a potential date and/or partner asks for money before you have actually met them face to face... ...it is almost certain you will never meet t ...

Tue May 14, 2024 2:36 am • 20 Replies • 3415 Views