Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

My only avenue in actually fulfilling my femdomme fantasies was in seeing a paid professional domme that was local to me. The differences were, I knew she was obviously in it for the money from the g ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:40 am • 23 Replies • 9430 Views

Are people afraid of coming out of closet about their BDSM fantasies and why ?

A LOT of good responses so far. I appreciate DollMaker's point that sexual repression is a very real thing in many parts of the world, and even here in the US, sexual freedoms are constantly under th ...

Thu Oct 14, 2021 3:07 am • 12 Replies • 4011 Views

Femdom ads; the inevitable money demand.

Some of these femdom dating scammers, you can almost tell it's not legit just by the way they write. I corresponded with someone for a while, not through this site but through a defunct one, and "Her ...

Wed Oct 13, 2021 7:32 am • 23 Replies • 9430 Views

Is Anal Play Taboo For Young, Straight Subs?

If this is not okay to ask, forgive me but, do women- specifically dominant women, enjoy GIVING anal play to straight men? Do they derive true enjoyment of penetrating their male subs with a strap on ...

Sat Oct 09, 2021 4:47 am • 76 Replies • 38273 Views

Why do people hide their limits?

Many people, newbies to BDSM, honestly probably don't know what their limits are.

They get excited about the idea of submitting, and are turned on by the idea of certain fetishes, or certain BDSM a ...

Tue Oct 05, 2021 3:13 am • 7 Replies • 2473 Views

Any words gross you out?

Please understand, I was not trying to "kink shame" anyone!! I am really sorry if you took it that way.
Actually I was actually responding to a post above mine.

I think the whole problem with th ...

Sat Oct 02, 2021 10:13 pm • 46 Replies • 11961 Views

Any words gross you out?

I said it grosses ME out. I was not the only one who thought so, and no I did not imply anyone was stupid or intellectually weak. I was only trying to explain why I don't like that word in a sexual ...

Sat Oct 02, 2021 3:15 am • 46 Replies • 11961 Views

Any words gross you out?

I actually despise race play in any kind of sexual context.

Thu Sep 30, 2021 2:34 am • 46 Replies • 11961 Views

Taboo kinks

Good question and yes, there are many taboo fetishes that I am ashamed of.

Part of the reason for my shame is I believe that some of these kinks will impede my ability to have a romantic relationsh ...

Tue Sep 28, 2021 3:29 am • 22 Replies • 10957 Views

Any words gross you out?

^I actually came here to post that very thing. You beat me to it. Yeah It is a huge turn-off for me, one of my top ones actually.

First of all, I am looking for a lover- not a surrogate daughter. ...

Tue Sep 28, 2021 3:13 am • 46 Replies • 11961 Views