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Posts by Steellover(sub male)

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Being Submissive

Things I believe a submissive is:
-A person who gets their own pleasure in giving pleasure to others.
-Someone who is thoughtful and considerate of the needs of others.
-One who tries to please, ...

Sat Jan 29, 2022 11:15 pm • 18 Replies • 6782 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Being Submissive

382

Judgemental people

If you express extreme right wing, racist, homophobic, transphobic, gate keeping one twue way, support an abuser, dismiss and deride others valid consent based kink choices, yes I am going to judge yo ...

Fri Jan 21, 2022 3:45 am • 55 Replies • 23817 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Judgemental people

383

Judgemental people

I try not to judge people on their kinks. I recognize that it can be harder than it seems, if one person's kink is really not your thing, or you find it "gross" or distasteful. I am a submissive mal ...

Mon Jan 17, 2022 10:16 pm • 55 Replies • 23817 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Judgemental people

384

Cuckold and forced bi

I really enjoyed the explanation that TallSlenderguy had about the paradox of being aroused by the degredation/humiliation kink in an intimate and erotic setting, with the right person, but NOT in a b ...

Fri Jan 14, 2022 4:31 am • 44 Replies • 37932 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Cuckold and forced bi

385

Cuckold and forced bi

I understand Closeted's point as far as the "Self Esteem" thing, but with me- it's not that at all.

The difference is this: those submissive males who are into cuckolding are into it because the ...

Thu Jan 13, 2022 5:10 am • 44 Replies • 37932 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Cuckold and forced bi

386

What makes you ignore messages on here?

(I suspect these scammers are actually guys not females). .

I suspect you are correct.

As soon as someone demands (or even requests) money before I've met them face to face (or in some cases, ...

Thu Jan 06, 2022 3:45 am • 119 Replies • 44478 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

What makes you ignore messages on here?

387

Golden showers

Any sub men looking for a shower ?

Nah, I just took one this morning. Washed my hair, and then shaved afterwards. (ha ha.)

Basically yes, (seriously speaking) a lot of sub men are into Golden s ...

Wed Dec 15, 2021 4:33 am • 53 Replies • 30867 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Fetish

Topic

Golden showers

388

ready for real time?

"Scamdemic" huh? I immediately tune out whenever I see someone use that term...and let me just stop there.

I've been ready for real time for a LONG time. I have been gingerly going out to small e ...

Sat Dec 11, 2021 4:56 am • 15 Replies • 7508 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Lifestyle BDSM

Topic

ready for real time?

389

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed

Male submission is probably not her kink. I get that; it's probably not a lot of people's kink. There are some dynamics of BDSM which are totally valid for others, but which don't really do much for ...

Wed Dec 08, 2021 7:39 am • 27 Replies • 18536 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed

390

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed

Fyglia, Please explain WHY it's not useful advice, then.

Your drive-by snarky posts and general hostility towards male submissives has already become pretty evident. But unless you have something ...

Wed Dec 08, 2021 3:46 am • 27 Replies • 18536 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

How to I find a Mistress without getting scammed