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Posts by Steellover(sub male)

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381

Submissive male

It sounds like, the original poster is seeking a purely service-oriented submissive, and not a kink/play partner.

There is nothing wrong with this, as long as she is purely honest in what she seeks ...

Mon Feb 21, 2022 11:12 pm • 34 Replies • 20751 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Femdom

Topic

Submissive male

382

I'm feeling nostalgic - Let's roll back the hands of time

The easiest, and most obvious answer (which has already been said multiple times) is....pretty much any time prior to March 2020. The day the world turned dark. And even as we prayed for sunshine an ...

Mon Feb 07, 2022 5:09 am • 15 Replies • 4410 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Just for Fun

Topic

I'm feeling nostalgic - Let's roll back the hands of time

383

Chastity

You repeated your exact post from earlier yesterday, word for word...why did you do this, exactly?

So, IS this very common in this lifestyle? Well the answer has to do with the level of submiss ...

Thu Feb 03, 2022 3:43 am • 19 Replies • 8554 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Chastity

384

Chastity

One thing about chastity which appeals to a lot of submissives is simply, the longer you go without a release, the more powerful the feelings are leading up to it, and the more powerful it is when you ...

Wed Feb 02, 2022 3:43 am • 19 Replies • 8554 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Chastity

385

Kink and vulnerability

I tend to keep my kinks pretty much in the closet. It's a bit different, and I believe more difficult, for a male who identifies as submissive and kinky, both to find a real-time partner or even have ...

Wed Feb 02, 2022 3:36 am • 11 Replies • 6054 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Kink and vulnerability

386

Chastity

This ought to be something you and your mistress might want to negotiate. I cannot tell you how you "Should" or "Should not" be in your own intimate relationship, so please don't misunderstand. It i ...

Sat Jan 29, 2022 11:20 pm • 19 Replies • 8554 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Chastity

387

Being Submissive

Things I believe a submissive is:
-A person who gets their own pleasure in giving pleasure to others.
-Someone who is thoughtful and considerate of the needs of others.
-One who tries to please, ...

Sat Jan 29, 2022 11:15 pm • 18 Replies • 7046 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Being Submissive

388

Judgemental people

If you express extreme right wing, racist, homophobic, transphobic, gate keeping one twue way, support an abuser, dismiss and deride others valid consent based kink choices, yes I am going to judge yo ...

Fri Jan 21, 2022 3:45 am • 55 Replies • 24960 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Judgemental people

389

Judgemental people

I try not to judge people on their kinks. I recognize that it can be harder than it seems, if one person's kink is really not your thing, or you find it "gross" or distasteful. I am a submissive mal ...

Mon Jan 17, 2022 10:16 pm • 55 Replies • 24960 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Generally Speaking

Topic

Judgemental people

390

Cuckold and forced bi

I really enjoyed the explanation that TallSlenderguy had about the paradox of being aroused by the degredation/humiliation kink in an intimate and erotic setting, with the right person, but NOT in a b ...

Fri Jan 14, 2022 4:31 am • 44 Replies • 39838 Views

Author

Steellover

Forum

Absolute Beginners

Topic

Cuckold and forced bi