What's worst?

Well, you do at least give a warning, and for that reason I respect, and agree with, everything you are saying. You let them know, and if they don't get it then, it's on them.

And yes, as mentio ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 6:39 am • 21 Replies • 4033 Views

Can we normalize not using suicide/self harm as a threat?

It is manipulation, and is called being a drama queen. I have no patience for that kind of thing. If someone was really serious about taking such a drastic step, then often, they won't actually say ...

Sat Mar 29, 2025 2:49 am • 10 Replies • 1468 Views

What's worst?

If you are talking about specifically on this site; I think being blocked without discernible reason bothers me more. Because then, I always wonder what I did, or what I said, that upset them to the ...

Thu Mar 27, 2025 2:33 am • 21 Replies • 4033 Views

Lesson of the day

I agree with that sentiment. I would argue that my submissiveness is also a personality trait....however, when people talk about "Skills" or "Experience" they may mean a couple things. One of them i ...

Tue Mar 25, 2025 2:55 am • 3 Replies • 2075 Views

How did you get started.

I suppose, then, on that note I was always submissive, but there were certainly a few experiences along the way that shaped me to be this way.

I was always raised to be attentive to other people' ...

Tue Mar 18, 2025 3:06 am • 21 Replies • 8978 Views

A vetting guide/questionnaire

These are ALL very valid questions for people to narrow down what they are seeking, and to avoid wasting time when you get into it and realize that you are both seeking very different things from the ...

Sat Mar 15, 2025 2:43 am • 2 Replies • 2656 Views

Kinks: Into everything?

It is certainly a learning curve. A lot of people jump into it with tons of intense feelings- Sub frenzy you call it, but little knowledge or experience or even really knowing what they are seeking. ...

Thu Mar 06, 2025 3:48 am • 14 Replies • 2789 Views

Kinks: Into everything?

Everyone has limits. Problem is, some of them they just don't know it. With inexperienced people new to the lifestyle, they might not yet realize what those limits are. And it's up to them to disco ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:44 am • 14 Replies • 2789 Views

How did you get started.

What originally "Turned me on" to BDSM? It was watching a documentary about a dungeon in New York, staffed by professionals. Something about the way these super strong, confident, powerful (and HOT) ...

Tue Mar 04, 2025 3:41 am • 21 Replies • 8978 Views

How did you get started.

That is a really amazing story and I am glad you were able to find what you were looking for, and quickly realized exactly what you DIDNT want and were able to get out of a really terrible situation. ...

Sun Mar 02, 2025 11:20 pm • 21 Replies • 8978 Views