How long is too long?

After a few weeks, if you are wanting to hook up in real life, and the person on the other end is simply making excuse after excuse after excuse to NOT meet up in real life, I would say these three th ...

Sat May 11, 2024 10:35 pm • 20 Replies • 1718 Views

Musing turned Inquiry: Demanding Relocation

There was a time when I might have considered relocating to my dream domme but only under the right circumstances, and those circumstances would have to be:

- I've not only met her in person but vi ...

Sat May 11, 2024 2:37 am • 20 Replies • 2838 Views

Pro this Pro that

"Tied up...." Literally. And I would agree, but sometimes, after a while, you start to want commitment.

Thu May 09, 2024 6:15 am • 12 Replies • 1149 Views

Pro this Pro that

After a while you realize that a professional might satisfy your short-term urge to submit and be dominated. They might satisfy your need to experience your fetishes in real time. But it is a short ...

Mon May 06, 2024 1:55 am • 12 Replies • 1149 Views

On losing a sub

I am sorry for your loss. I can't say that "I know how you feel" because I have never experienced a heartbreak after seven years like that. And it's only empty words anyway. I can only imagine the j ...

Sat May 04, 2024 3:47 am • 10 Replies • 1683 Views

Low effort messages from dudes

I don't generally send messages on here to people at all, unless it is something specific to either a blog or a forum post, and more often than not it is easier to just respond to the post in question ...

Thu May 02, 2024 2:39 am • 44 Replies • 4250 Views

Word Play: ABCs of Kink

P is for pegging.

Bend me over, violate me, make me your fuck toy, push it in deeper, make me moan, make me your submissive little B$%^&*H

Sat Apr 27, 2024 7:30 am • 32 Replies • 1509 Views

Vanilla dating

I approach BDSM dating in the same way as I would approach vanilla dating: With a casual meet-up over coffee or drinks (if she's a drinker; some people I've dated are, shall we say, friends of Bill W ...

Mon Apr 22, 2024 3:12 am • 26 Replies • 2812 Views

Vanilla dating

Well, I've been pretty much resigned to the vanilla dating pool. Mostly because, over the years since I realized I was a kinky, submissive male, I have found that the options for any kind of mutually ...

Sun Apr 21, 2024 2:41 am • 26 Replies • 2812 Views

What do you like most about premium?

I am not a "Premium" member but the one bonus is the ability to spruce up your blog entries with pictures. I've been wanting to do so for a while. You can't post pics as a standard member.
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Thu Apr 18, 2024 3:43 am • 12 Replies • 1149 Views