My husband isn't a dom...

Thank you he keeps telling me he's a Dom and he is dominant but he doesn't act it he acts like a typical beta male

My experience is that it's those laid back, non-aggressive, non-pushy (typical bet ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 8:29 am • 39 Replies • 12872 Views

My husband isn't a dom...

I think it's a tactical error to introduce someone to BDSM you want them to do to you by showing them the acts of Dominance (especially as portrayed in porn!).
Acts of Dominance can so easily be con ...

Mon Jun 21, 2021 7:29 am • 39 Replies • 12872 Views

Green Flags

Another one for me is being careful with their own personal information. This almost seems counter intuitive. But hear me out:

I have a pretty public job. I'm well known in my community. Kink isn' ...

Sun Jun 20, 2021 6:00 pm • 21 Replies • 7685 Views

Can a monogamous person date a polyamorous person?

People will tell you that communication is key. I don't disagree, but feel that understanding of that communication is the real key.
Also important is how that communication happens.

How do you ...

Sun Jun 20, 2021 1:49 pm • 10 Replies • 4047 Views

Green Flags

I saw a video on TicTok today that really made me curious about what other people would answer:

When you meet someone into kink, what are the green flags you're looking for? I'm talking about the p ...

Sun Jun 20, 2021 12:35 am • 21 Replies • 7685 Views

Masochist self experimentation

good responses

i wanted to add, what you do to yourself feels different than what another does to you and how. example: tickling yourself, can’t do it

😂
True!

When I moved from online ex ...

Mon Jun 14, 2021 6:33 am • 12 Replies • 5145 Views

Masochist self experimentation

I just want to add: remember that your playing with your body's responses to stimuli. You'll have endorphins released, you might start to feel a little out of it. Know how that works and put safety ...

Sat Jun 12, 2021 11:20 am • 12 Replies • 5145 Views

Masochist self experimentation

Ooh the options are endless! 😁 This is how I started my journey and it helped me a lot to know what types of pain did what for me.

So first think of what you've thought about before. Do some rese ...

Sat Jun 12, 2021 11:16 am • 12 Replies • 5145 Views

Submissives. Teach this dom something new.

An important point imo is that communication can't be one sided.
When asked for an opinion, I'll give it, and then I'll ask Yours. Don't then play coy or give a superficial answer. I'll play that ga ...

Fri Jun 11, 2021 11:45 pm • 7 Replies • 3261 Views

Word association game

hair

When I say after-care you think of?

Fri Jun 11, 2021 10:03 pm • 979 Replies • 112357 Views