pictures

why does it always come down to pictures ? i am happy to meet up with people but not sending an image into the conversation seems to be a nail in the coffin, not everyone is in a position to be able t ...

Wed Mar 07, 2018 7:29 pm • 18 Replies • 10370 Views

Sub names

taken lower, I think that is a brilliant idea could call him a flowers name if that's the case ?

Wed Mar 07, 2018 6:44 pm • 9 Replies • 78861 Views

Sub names

Aphrodite ? the greek goddess of love and lust.

Wed Mar 07, 2018 6:41 pm • 9 Replies • 78861 Views

A question for the subs

For me personally, i would only consider an experienced one at this point in time, i would be too difficult for a newbie after experiencing being a switch for a year. I find it would be unfair on a ne ...

Sat Dec 09, 2017 10:52 pm • 4 Replies • 4111 Views

When is being Dominant not a good thing?

very well written and put, many mistake being Domly as something its not being compassionate is always a positive thing.

Thu Dec 07, 2017 4:36 am • 8 Replies • 8006 Views

Topping from the bottom

Just curious as to peoples perspectives and thoughts on topping from the bottom. Is it a very rude and disrespectful sub or a Dom who is out of there depth? These are things i have heard in the past a ...

Fri Dec 01, 2017 3:16 am • 1 Replies • 3191 Views

Red light/Green light

It is possible and i find that its a good indication of a true Dom when they are willing to invest time, that could mean months but for me it meant being a vanilla friend for a year first so he knew a ...

Thu Nov 30, 2017 1:42 am • 7 Replies • 7378 Views

Red light/Green light

I once had one get to know me for a year before going any further and its needed to gain trust if you dont fully trust it will fall apart x its worth the wait.

Thu Nov 30, 2017 1:35 am • 7 Replies • 7378 Views

To all

Thank you for all of your insight, im finding it very insightful. I consider myself a submissive however I have realised a lot of my limits have become more essentials for safety rather than anything ...

Thu Nov 09, 2017 5:15 pm • 15 Replies • 16971 Views

Slave vs Submissive

My point to this hawkeye, i understand the concept, im asking as my limits are red not because i am uncomfy with new ideas ect but for my mental wellbeing, this is why im asking as some things can not ...

Thu Nov 09, 2017 2:33 am • 15 Replies • 16971 Views