Is there a way to avoid desperate noobs?

Doesn't really seem to be a way to. I get spammed as a sub female, too. Sometimes the messages are really disturbing. Usually they are just clueless or desperate. Really disturbing ones get reported. ...

Fri Dec 22, 2017 2:29 pm • 50 Replies • 28638 Views

I was a professional dominatrix- an AMA

1. I want to be an apprentice to a Domme and work closely with her creating ultra sexy scenes in which i am turned from male to female... Possible?

Well, I mean, with a pro domme, she isn't going t ...

Fri Dec 22, 2017 1:48 pm • 13 Replies • 12377 Views

Kinky Holiday Gift Ideas!

Well, I am Asatru- and not the racist kind, hah. It's Yule today! Where a lot of Christmas traditions actually came from. Going to celebrate with other heathens, and then Master and I are going to com ...

Thu Dec 21, 2017 9:27 pm • 12 Replies • 11175 Views

Problems with the Personals

Aside from my cheeky write-up about sending messages?

First of all, read their ad and their profiles thoroughly. Well, hopefully they will have bothered to write something. If they haven't, what's ...

Wed Dec 20, 2017 1:22 am • 30 Replies • 20808 Views

Problems with the Personals

Let's say you're looking for breakfast. Instead of being offered breakfast, a bunch of people dump trash on your lawn. It's demoralizing, it makes you feel bad, and there's still no offer of breakfast ...

Wed Dec 20, 2017 12:30 am • 30 Replies • 20808 Views

Problems with the Personals

Well, while there is a proliferation of men who just want to get off to a fantasy, I wouldn't say there are a ton of men contacting us women who actually want any kind of serious long term interaction ...

Wed Dec 20, 2017 12:11 am • 30 Replies • 20808 Views

I was a professional dominatrix- an AMA

1. If this isn't too personal a question, do you identify completely as a sub in your personal life? Were you a lifestyle Domme or switch when you started as a pro?

I have, over the years, gone bac ...

Tue Dec 19, 2017 10:55 pm • 13 Replies • 12377 Views

I was a professional dominatrix- an AMA

1. I know that typically, sexual contact is off the table for pro Dommes. But I'm curious (within those bounds), did you ever get men who orgasmed somehow anyway? Do they get reprimanded for it if it ...

Tue Dec 19, 2017 6:41 am • 13 Replies • 12377 Views

I was a professional dominatrix- an AMA

The biggest misconception? That's a hard one! I'll throw a few out.

1. That all pro dommes have sex with their clients. Some do, either PiV/ hand jobs/ or blowjobs, but that's relatively rare, at l ...

Tue Dec 19, 2017 3:31 am • 13 Replies • 12377 Views

I was a professional dominatrix- an AMA

1. "Did you ever have clients who saw you on a regular basis to get whipped?"

Not single-tail whipped. I never did master that particular toy- it has a steep learning curve, and most clients of pr ...

Mon Dec 18, 2017 11:28 pm • 13 Replies • 12377 Views