Trying It On Yourself

I think it's important to have a ballpark idea about what it feels like and how easy it is to make it hurt, if it is that kind of toy. I always tested things like that on myself when I was a pro domme ...

Sun Nov 19, 2017 5:09 am • 10 Replies • 11961 Views

A PERSONAL MESSAGE FROM THE FOUNDERS OF THE CAGE

I totally see the need for this, yes! And thank you for all your proactive, good work.

Thu Nov 16, 2017 12:39 am • 47 Replies • 38708 Views

Am I Crazy?

Do what feels right to you. Will you be at peace looking yourself in the eye in the mirror, after?

Mon Nov 13, 2017 12:02 am • 3 Replies • 3976 Views

Safe words during punishment

I wouldn't play with someone who disallowed safewords, even during a punishment. Punishment isn't for me anyway, but even if it was, hell no. Trauma is harmful. Do you really want to cause your partne ...

Sat Nov 11, 2017 12:29 pm • 4 Replies • 7338 Views

Mental block

These things can take time to work past, if the person wants to get past them. Slow, careful exposure. Can't be rushed.
A note: protection isn't always enough. Condoms break. Herpes and HPV can be t ...

Wed Nov 08, 2017 12:10 am • 28 Replies • 17891 Views

Mental block

Ahh, I see!
And he himself wants to be ok with playing with strangers?

Tue Nov 07, 2017 10:19 am • 28 Replies • 17891 Views

Mental block

I mean, honestly orientation is innate, and if that is his boundary, trying to force him to ignore it will probably be emotionally harmful to him. Do you care about him at all as a human being? Seeing ...

Tue Nov 07, 2017 9:07 am • 28 Replies • 17891 Views

Reading Material

Absolutely!

My favorite is The Heart of Dominance by Anton Fulmen. https://www.amazon.com/Heart-Dominance-practicing-consensual-dominance-ebook/dp/B01F8C7L2Y I recommend it for everyone in D/s. He ...

Mon Nov 06, 2017 7:47 am • 7 Replies • 8006 Views