Emotions & Catching Feelings

"some get into the kinky shenanigans for the sex only (and even friends with benefits). " Big difference between kinkters, kinktards and D/Ms

Sun May 19, 2024 10:03 pm • 28 Replies • 1753 Views

Emotions & Catching Feelings

Those types half ass being a Dom/me.

Fri May 17, 2024 11:39 pm • 28 Replies • 1753 Views

Vanilla dating

People overlook the common denominator is people in either dynamic, (Vanilla is also a dynamic ) who one Is in one dynamic is who is going to be in the other..

Sun May 12, 2024 4:27 am • 23 Replies • 1661 Views

On losing a sub

"he doesn't want to ever know from me again because we shared too much together."
That's code for he wasn't as invested as you were and doesn't want others to find out about you. Be grateful he left ...

Tue May 07, 2024 10:27 pm • 9 Replies • 866 Views

My ex revealed his kink to me and I don't know what to do

The breeding thing is a red flag .
How he views women is another red flag .
Trust your gut and don't worry about being seen as " kink bashing " .
Him waiting until he was deployed to tell you a ...

Sat Feb 10, 2024 2:16 pm • 21 Replies • 2762 Views

Blackmailed when compromised...

Steellover, I am really sorry that this happened to you, it stinks and it’s hella unfair. And frankly, it shows what a shit business person that particular ProDomme is. There are decent folks that are ...

Wed Jan 24, 2024 11:58 am • 14 Replies • 2635 Views

Blackmailed when compromised...

Yeah, cautionary tale.

There's always the temptation to get the "quick kinky fix" but in nearly all cases, those "pros" are pros all right, at parting a guy from his money (not to mention self r ...

Sat Dec 16, 2023 10:33 am • 14 Replies • 2635 Views

Am I wrong for setting an age limit?

You set a boundary up,
anyone who wants you to lower it isnt worth your time.
So ignore those messages dont even bother to reply.

Sat Nov 04, 2023 11:20 pm • 49 Replies • 4764 Views

Being sexually open

At the rate the lifestyle is deteriorating it will be mainstream sooner than later.
But that still doesn't mean people will understand or not have their opinions.

Wed Nov 01, 2023 10:32 am • 20 Replies • 1783 Views

Is it needed to tell me that you're a nice guy?

" nice guy" is code for low key predator

Wed Nov 01, 2023 1:59 am • 34 Replies • 2862 Views